I'm a pretty smart guy, but sometimes I tend to "overthink" things. I've found that "trial and error" supplements what many would consider "logical" stuff. Heck, why not just take a chance; play that lottery ticket, ask that pretty girl out you've been fantasying about for months, smile at someone who is an asshole. Get my drift? You can't get if you don't give. I work with a lot of young people, aged 20-30 that kid me about my age (I'm 59), but I've earned their respect by learning. Almost everyone has something positive to give in this world and almost everyone wants to take something positive.