I learned a lot from this bad experience. I learned to be selective and be clear on expectations. Unfortunately, I learned through mistakes and this bad experience.
I met a couple that wanted a younger, well hung guy to fuck the horny wife. I didn't think twice and agreed. I wasn't overly attracted to the female. She wasn't unattractive, but I wouldn't have considered fucking her if it weren't for my eagerness to replicate my first experience.
**SIDENOTE** : My exes' friend and her boyfriend broke up 3 weeks after I fucked her. I kept fucking her until she moved out of state for work.
I met the new couple and the husband was very eager. We went back to their place the first night which I know now is unusual. I was pretty buzzed after a couple more drinks at the house. They weren't. We were soon naked and I was ready to go. The wife gave me head while her husband watched and stroked his cock. I started fucking her from behind and the husband moved close. He started rubbing my ass while he kissed her. I shifted my body away from his hand and kept fucking. He said he wanted to see my dick in his wife's pussy so he crouched down for a better look. Soon he was fondling my balls from behind me. I took my cock out of the pussy and moved.
I don't have a problem with being touched by a another man. In fact, a favorite couple of mine involves the husband sucking my cock. However, that's after months of regular sex and getting comfortable with each other.
Back to my story. The wife pulled the comdom off my dick, sat me down on the couch and put my dick in her mouth. Put a new condom on and started riding me. I was back into the sex and rock hard. She grabbed my wrists and put my arms behind my head while a tongue started massaging my balls. I started to protest and she held me firmly. I honestly tried to get past the unwelcomed man on man tongue to balls action but we didn't talk about it and felt like they had it planned. A finger started to push into my ass and I jumped up. My dick went soft as I asked what the fuck was going on?!
No wonder he was so anxious! He wanted a guy for himself, not for his wife. They got legitimately angry with me calling me a homophobe. The husband started ridiculing me for going soft saying I couldn't perform. The wife said I wanted the husband more than her which is why I couldn't stay hard. I objected by stating the fact that we never discussed any of this and that I wasn't comfortable. They laughed at me. I had never been so immaculated in my life! I felt 2 inches tall which was a far cry from my first experience. I left the house while the three of us were yelling at each other.
It took me awhile to get over that. I stayed on the swinger site but didn't check it for weeks. When I did, there weren't any new messages anyway. It took months before I met the next couple. I was overly cautious at that point which made them a little nervous. After a few attempts we finally had sex and reaffirmed my place in the wonderful world of cuckoldry.