Here some tips, which should keep the two/three of your love life an added boost :
1) PLAN A SEXY NIGHT
Send the kids to grandma’s and buy a sexy outfit that will make your partner drool. Even if lacy lingerie is not usually your thing, it may be time to branch out into a new avenue. Think about your partner’s taste and what he or she might like to see you wear, and go from there. While you may be hesitant to try on revealing items, the purchase may lead to a passionate night of lovemaking. If you already own a variety of sexy garments, try to find something different from your usual selection
2) BLINDFOLD HER / HIM
Sexual pleasure has many dimensions, but the most important sexual organ we have is our brain. When one sense is hindered, our other senses -- via the brain -- clamor to compensate. For example, a deaf person has increased sensory awareness -- sight, smell, touch, and vibrations.Blindfolding your partner will increases her / his sensory awareness. She / he doesn’t know where you are or what you are going to do next. This creates anticipation for better sex -- the tease. Tease her / him mercilessly with sensory objects, such as a feather or your tongue. Start off softly, as this excites her / his nerve endings and makes them far more sensitive. Be careful not to overstimulate the nerve endings, however, because after a while the neurons stop firing with such intensity and the sensation becomes null and void.
3) GET DOWN & DIRTY
After a while you may think you know how to please your partner in every way, but this is very rarely true. There is always something you haven’t tried, and there is bound to be something one of you always does that could be done differently. Talk about things you haven’t tried, but would like to, then choose one suggestion from each partner, and get down and dirty.
Sensual touch is one of the most highly relaxing and sexy things you can do for your partner. Our bodies are almost without exception tense in some area, if not many areas. This hinders our energy flow -- including sexual energy flow. A relaxing sensual massage can unlock our body to some very intense orgasms and much better sex in the end.
5) TELL YOUR FANTASIES
Talking about your fantasies with your partner is a very conducive form of sex play. It increases communication with your partner which is of great importance, as well, it also helps you get to know each other better for better sex. Yes, you may be surprised by what comes out of her mouth, but this works both ways. Keep it light at first and don’t throw her in the deep end with fantasies about people you both know or reveal fetishes you aren't sure about.
6) PLAY A GAME
Get a pack of cards and play strip poker for better sex. Once you are both naked (or nearly naked), you can start on the really fun part: A loss means the other person gets to choose what action is performed on them by the loser. Time limits like one minute on said action means that it is a prolonged game of seduction, which by the end will have you both clamoring to be both the winner and the loser. There are many other games you can play "strip" to, as long as there is regular winner and loser to reward and punish respectively. The great part about these games is that you can both ask the other person to do something in a certain way that you may not necessarily have ever done before. It can get rather filthy, and definitely lead to better sex in the end.
7) DIRTY TALK
Talking dirty has turned people on for millennial and will continue to do so because it has something other sex play doesn’t: words. Because our brains are our largest sexual apparatus, we respond to the spoken word automatically -- especially when someone says our name. The spoken word evokes emotions, sensations and blood flow to various regions, depending on the topic. Talking dirty is, however, an art form and when done badly can result in fits of giggles (which, lets face it, ain't so bad but isn't quite the goal here). Don’t let this deter you.