Tell the truth old BF's
Posted Wed Aug 31, 2011 04:15 PM
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Posted Wed Aug 31, 2011 04:45 PM
on the flip i cant see myself askin are my tits betta, bigga, is my puss titer, sweeta cuz the truth mite hurt and id have no one to blame but myself for wantin to know.
besides that, i do understand bein curious, and maybe the need to compare but i dont see the value.
Posted Wed Aug 31, 2011 05:06 PM
Personally as an ego thing, I would hope I was the biggest.....practically I aint asking coz I might not be
Posted Wed Aug 31, 2011 05:25 PM
i think she is telling the truth really but i really never thought about the guys penis, but i look first at there bodies i dont like punches at all, a small penis or a big one doesnt matter for me
Posted Wed Aug 31, 2011 05:29 PM
i totally agree...ya would probly like to know that ya are but wont wanna know if ya not. its a Q i hope i nevah get asked.
and if it hasnt been said a thousand times before, size isnt what all women focus on. personally i know what my puss can handle, and bigga dont mean betta. its who that dick is attached to.
This post has been edited by babykissme: Wed Aug 31, 2011 05:35 PM
Posted Wed Aug 31, 2011 06:21 PM
Posted Wed Aug 31, 2011 08:39 PM
Posted Wed Aug 31, 2011 09:02 PM
Read again... Length is only one dimension, girth is the other, and they go together.
To be honest, only one man has ever asked me... Some German fellow whom I probably should've let go, but I was too horny. His jaw dropped to the floor when I told him his 9" was not the biggest I had. I guess he had lived in China for too long before moving to Canada, and I don't know what he was thinking, but he thought I was Asian. Oh well, people construct worlds in their own minds.
This post has been edited by Olive: Wed Aug 31, 2011 09:02 PM
Posted Wed Aug 31, 2011 11:27 PM
That's a good question. I'd tell the truth. I agree that a guy deserves the truth if he's going to ask the question. But I'd at least try to be tactful. If the guy is asking, then that means he's thinking that I've had a guy who was bigger than he is and that maybe the bigger guy was a better lover, so I wouldn't want to damage his ego or make him feel inadequate. Even if my guy wasn't the biggest I'd ever had, I'd want him to be confident that the reasons I'm with him now have a lot less to do with his penis size and a lot more to do with our relationship and the man he is.
I'm lucky never to have been in this position. My guy is my only lover, so there's no reason for him to ask me to compare him to other guys because there haven't been any other guys.
Posted Thu Sep 01, 2011 02:45 AM
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Posted Thu Sep 01, 2011 09:56 AM
I have done my best to forget my ex's and their parts, male or female. Add to that I've never measured or cared. I could really only say who's was the smallest...lol, he was the worst in bed too!
I once encountered a guy who had a MONSTER cock... Well, it may not have been the super large but it certainly scared me! I actually told him I couldn't go through with it. He had to make do with a bj. I think it really hurt his feelings but I got the feeling he had heard it before. I am not very deep and was convinced if it went in my twat, it was going to come out my mouth with every stroke. Even "average" guys can bottom out in me depending on the position.
This post has been edited by DesertGirl: Thu Sep 01, 2011 10:02 AM
Posted Thu Sep 01, 2011 10:08 AM
Posted Thu Sep 01, 2011 02:45 PM
As we get into swinging more, we're going to pay attention to penis size and aim for those smaller than his... not for his ego, but because I'm not joking about not being able to handle larger. I got lucky with our first partner; his is thinner and easier for me to handle. Some couples advertise that they want "no smaller than X inches;" maybe I should measure Mr.DE's and then advertise "no bigger than X inches!"