Posted Fri Sep 02, 2011 09:20 PM
Posted Fri Sep 02, 2011 11:53 PM
Posted Sat Sep 03, 2011 01:47 AM
you cant expect him to be honest if you're not being honest so fess up & see what his reaction is
Posted Sat Sep 03, 2011 01:52 AM
Posted Sat Sep 03, 2011 02:05 AM
Posted Sat Sep 03, 2011 02:34 AM
It's nice to have a marriage where you are open and share things, but most couples don't share everything.
If he is just on here to talk about sex that is ok. But if he is on here looking for another partner or something then that is different.
I don't tell my wife all of the websites or forums that i belong to. But if she asked, I would probably tell her I was on her.
If my wife was a member here to, I would give her space so that she could enjoy coming here too.
One way you could do it is tell him you were on the internet the other day and you read some interesting topics in a forum. Then mention the name and see how he reacts.
Posted Sun Sep 04, 2011 03:51 AM
Well I'd love to know what "involved" means is that with some one or just a member? Have you read his posts? The other i feel are right about being honest, but how are you going to be with him, is it something you could share or would you just be tolerating him being on here? I'd love to be able to share site like this with the wife but really had some bad experiences with her attitude to such things so have no idea how to bring it up. Please feel free to P.M. me for a chat, love to know how you get on.