Tips on how to last longer???
Posted Fri Sep 16, 2011 01:59 PM
Me and my girl have prety good sex, at good times i can last about 30 mins or so, but i read somewhere you can develop techniques to make you last longer. Does anyone have any tips or tricks they use in the bedroom to last longer.
Posted Fri Sep 16, 2011 04:48 PM
You can download many of the books I mentioned on iBooks or kindle for about ten bucks. The cool thing is it's private and ultra convenient. You can purchase books on Tantric Yoga or look for Tantric Yoga workshops in your area if that appeals to you. I have never practiced Tantra but I live a somewhat alternative lifestyle and know many practitioners. They rave about their experiences.
Hopefully some of the men of this forum will pipe up with tips and tricks that they find to be effective...
Posted Fri Sep 16, 2011 04:50 PM
Posted Fri Sep 16, 2011 05:01 PM
Lol, from what my Tantric crazed friends have told me, it takes a great deal of practice. I am altogether too impatient (at this point in my life) to appreciate the wonders Tantra has to offer. I have read that a guy can pinch the area behind his balls... The taint, and prevent himself from ejaculating. I haven't seen this done in person however. It is something you could experiment with a little bit on the solo tip before trying with a partner. A young gay friend told me about it. His boyfriend didn't mind him masturbating, but desired him to save his ejaculate for their sessions together.
Posted Fri Sep 16, 2011 05:02 PM
Posted Fri Sep 16, 2011 06:35 PM
Years ago I use to get excited easily to the point of not controlling my orgasm. This made things end rather quickly at times. Once I learned how to control my thoughts in conjunction with my PC muscles, everything just fell into place. I can now last for several hous without cumming. I cum when I want to cum, no sooner, no later. I have complete control over it. The only thing I have yet to try is being restrained. Not sure how well I would hold up to that, but as it is now, I am in charge of my mind and my body and I love it.
Its pretty easy actually. You can practice by either masterbating or even when you take a piss. Can you stop pissing mid-stream without the use of your hands ? If you can then you are using your PC muscle when you do so. Look up kegal exercises, its basically the saem technique. When masterbating, bring yourself to near orgasm and then try to pinch it off ithout using your hands. Again, its controlling your pc muscle that prevents it from squirting out. Another thing that works to help you from cumming, curling your toes at the same time you tighten your pc muscle, it takes your mind off of the sex breifly, just enough to refrain from from popping off too early.
Good luck, make sure you come back and let us know if my advise was helpful to you.
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Posted Wed Jul 11, 2012 09:44 AM
I think some guys masturbated as a youth in the bathroom so it was the "hurry up and don't get caught." mentallity that I think leads towards pre-mature ejacultation. Just my thoughts though.
So If I was you, I would try some serious masturbation... try to make it last as long as you can. Then go have sex!
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Posted Thu Jul 26, 2012 06:26 PM
got it from that movie There's Something About Mary..... It def. works!