Is this wrong?
Posted Sun Sep 18, 2011 04:11 PM
Posted Sun Sep 18, 2011 04:53 PM
Personally I don't see anything wrong with a friend with benefits etc. But I believe that both parties need to be absolutely sure that it is just sex and nothing more and feel ok about it.
So in answer to your question, no I wouldn't just pick the first girl that said yes......but I do think it's ok to find someone just for sex, as long as they know it too.
Posted Mon Sep 19, 2011 08:00 AM
If I'm talking to an atheist, or someone who doesn't believe in a Judeo-Christian faith, then I would say there is nothing wrong with it. It doesn't really matter if the girl is totally aware that the guy doesn't really like her or not. Other people's feelings are not your responsibility. If they go with you of their own accord, they went with you of your own accord. It doesn't matter if you BS them to make them think you're cool or whatever. After all, sex is just sex, it's not like you're performing surgery on her. Wear a rubber, climax, all is good. If she finds out you fibbed about anything, who cares, it's not like you stole her money or anything, right?
Posted Mon Sep 19, 2011 03:02 PM
This is similar to a one night stand.
Simple answer, does not bother me in the least. You need to remember, you are not alone in said act, the female is responsible for her own actions and she makes up 50% of what is taking place. So you might see it as using her, but she very well could be using you too.
It takes two to tango.
Posted Wed Sep 21, 2011 02:06 PM
Posted Wed Sep 21, 2011 09:39 PM
KainMalice, don't do this. It's disrespectful to any woman. Honesty this is usually the best route. Nobody should have a problem finding a woman who would just wanna have sex without worrying about commitment. We all have needs.
Posted Thu Sep 22, 2011 12:14 AM
Posted Thu Sep 22, 2011 12:18 AM