Am I overthinking this?
Posted Fri Oct 28, 2011 12:22 AM
So my question is am I over thinking this?
Posted Fri Oct 28, 2011 01:07 AM
Posted Fri Oct 28, 2011 07:01 AM
Have a chat with her and ask her what her comfort levels are.
Posted Sun Oct 30, 2011 02:58 AM
Posted Sun Oct 30, 2011 08:56 AM
Since you have began building this backwards, continue on that route.
Let's assume that she doesn't just want you around to take the edge off of a new place and new expectations (grades, bills, etc) and will jetison from you as soon as she finds her comfort level and confidence in a new environment. Are you being played?
If not, or you sense that it isn't the case then go back to the tried and true things. If friends for 3 years, then she sees you as a friend first, love interest second.
Doing more exciting and interesting 'friend' things will bring about more exciting and interesting 'relationship' things.
Then you sneak in that kiss or squeeze of a hand AFTER the good friendship stuff.
You can make her want to be close with you, but this takes patience. No rushing in with this one, if it is worth it to you.
Make her see your value, and your stock will go up.
Posted Sun Oct 30, 2011 06:08 PM
Posted Mon Oct 31, 2011 06:15 AM