Posted Fri Apr 20, 2007 08:28 PM
Do any of you think a sex theripist might help any? Or where I might even find one in VA?
Posted Fri Apr 20, 2007 08:44 PM
Posted Sat Apr 21, 2007 12:30 AM
Posted Sat Apr 21, 2007 01:22 AM
Also, i find it much easier to figure out where to go with her on her back, as opposed to doggy style, easier entry aswell.
If nothing else works, lay on your back and let her guide it in. If she cant even find where it goes then she needs to practice with masturbation first me thinks.
Posted Sat Apr 21, 2007 05:36 AM
I hope it all works out for you.
Posted Sat Apr 21, 2007 07:49 AM
As for her...yes she can use tampons fingers and such...though my middle finger is kind of a tight fit in her and thats roughly half the thickness of my dick. And yes I've tried it with her on her back (tried it with her on top to but it got painful when she tried to sit down and my dick started bending the wrong way) but she can't help me find my way in. I'm just not sure what the issue is....
Posted Wed Apr 25, 2007 06:21 PM
Posted Wed Apr 25, 2007 11:48 PM
Although it is rare, there are couples whose parts don't fit too comfortably together, and maybe a specialized technique would help. But that would be for a professional to determine.
When my girlfriend and I haven't done it in awhile, she tends to tighten up a bit and I need to start out kind of gently. When we're both good and wet, I'll start with the tip, and will eventually ease the rest in.
Good luck to both of you though. And kudos for seeking help