Happily Married but eploring Been faithful for 25 years...but want to explore things....chatting..c
Posted Thu Dec 01, 2011 02:28 PM
Is there anyone out there in the same place...and any of you who want to teach me a thing or two. I haven't posted pics...not yet...trying to learn a thing or two first...
Am I opening a can of worms so to speak or am I in for a treat?
Posted Thu Dec 01, 2011 02:47 PM
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Posted Thu Dec 01, 2011 03:48 PM
Yes, it's good to come here with an open mind, but if you're married, just be honest with your partner... Talk to him about what you want, ask him what he'd like. Exploring fantasies in a couple should be exhausting... Then, try to do things together, or separately, but never on the other's back.
You don't need to cam right away... Interestingly enough, I'm not that into it, but I love to chat with people and put things in words rather than display my body on cam... Not that I'm uncomfortable with it, it's just a matter of preference and choice at the end. Different things work for different people, and some things bring you more pleasure than others... Then, it's a question of mood... Maybe, I'm not that visually inclined, or maybe I find that words are sometimes more powerful than the visuals alone. Hey, curiosity and exploration are great things...
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Posted Sat Dec 03, 2011 04:51 PM
My husband has very strong opinions about my conduct here, and we're in total agreement and understanding about why I'm here and how I participate.
A website isn't worth screwing up your marriage just because you didn't handle it responsibly.
Posted Sun Dec 04, 2011 10:07 AM
My wife knows my activities, and sometimes joins. Including her made it fun!
Posted Sun Dec 04, 2011 10:36 AM
If you are unsatisfied in your marriage, this site will not solve the problems or be a good substitute. You may have fun at first and get turned on, validated and receive lots of attention, but from my experience what goes up must come crashing back down. I have seen it time and time again.
A woman joins, curious and wanting to feel something she has never before or for a long time.
She looks, reads and flirts. Posts a few pics and gets so much attention that she posts some more. She may cam and gets involved more in cyber sex. She feels wanted and so amazing that she wants more. She may post more daring pics and spend more time online than she does out with friends or even with her partner.
There are so many things that can go wrong though. You can get attached to people on here only to be hurt by them. You can get so caught up in this site that you neglect the other parts of your life and risk losing relationships. You can have the wildest time of your life only to realise that you actually still feel very empty inside, for this site wont fill any voids or find you happiness, that is something you need to find for yourself from within.
You may or may not experience any of what I have mentioned, but whatever you do, please be careful when exploring this site. It is a fantastic community and can be so much fun, but if you walk in to this with your eyes closed you can do damage, to yourself, to your husband and to your marriage. Is it really worth it to get off on a few words on your screen
Posted Sun Dec 04, 2011 10:43 AM