We've been engaged for almost a year now (1 y.next month),we live together,about to get married .Its always been clear that we were together because we wanted to spend our life together,no less.Anyway, every time we argue , his first reaction is "Im leaving, we've never been together,you're not my wife-to-be,Im not your man".I find it strange.I mean, how can we spend our life together if your first reaction is to be leaving ?? To me, we're supposed to make it work, no matter what,we can't give up, we have to find a solution.After all, its normal to argue here and there.
It has created confusion and doubts in my mind.I gave up a life of comfort and adventures to be with him because I always believed it was worth it.We're supposed to be a team but with him saying this all the time, I find it hard to trust him and work as a team.Its pretty stressful.
Im not sure what to think : Am I taking this too seriously (he was just angry) ?? Did some of you guys experience this ??
This post has been edited by chrislek: Thu Dec 08, 2011 07:37 PM