Needs to spice up our sex lives
Posted Tue Dec 13, 2011 09:49 AM
Posted Tue Dec 13, 2011 10:37 AM
If he's gonna be late coming home from work surprise him: Meet him at the door wearing whatever he thinks looks sexy on you and nothing else (if he drinks have what he drinks also but most likely he's gonna pick you over a beer)
If he has time at lunch: Bring him lunch (unless he comes home for it) and convince him to have a quicky even if it's just u giving him head most guys like that and rtf when they get home
Talk about your real fantasy's: Not just RP or being tied up maybe he wants you to take control more or less depending on the guy
every guy is different so i can really only say so much but these saved a few of my relationships before they ended for other reasons
Posted Tue Dec 13, 2011 10:57 AM
Posted Tue Dec 13, 2011 11:06 AM
If I had a man, like a husband, I wouldn't let secrets and misunderstandings creep into the relationship. If he wanted to keep a "secret" garden, it should be in the open. I'd know of it. I'd respect it, not be controling it, reading his stuff, etc, but I'd know of it.
About letting other people in the bedroom to keep him... I'd say that won't work. You'll feel bad about it, probably resentment will grow in you... I do lots of threesomes, but never with couples in these circumstances. It causes the wife to suffer a lot. A wife can't "compete" with another woman who's just there for fun time. It's easy to be nice, light and funny when all we do together is... have fun. You, the wife, get the whole lot. You know the color of his shit.
My mother accepted all sorts of things from my father... then, he left her anyway, when she couldn't give him the thing she really couldn't give anyone: become young again. She regrets (this part of) her life and that's a sad thing.
Other people in the bedroom work when the couple really wishes it, craves it sexually. The couples I fuck, the women have "crushes" on me, I get them excited, they enjoy fucking with me around. If only the man is really into it, the wife suffers. I had many women fucking a man I was in love with (I still am) and I really enjoyed a lot the idea of them fucking. I'd suck his cum from their pussies, all happy and excited, cumming like mad. He'd fuck them when I was doing something else and I'd hear the story afterwards, enjoying it, his finger in my pussy. That's 3some.
Think about talking to him openly about what you suspect, what you've seen. Of course, I don't know of your particular situation, so, ignore my suggestion if it doesn't fit your world. I apologize in advance if I've upset you and I wish you the best.
Posted Wed Dec 14, 2011 05:14 AM
And try new things like toys. Ever tried lying face down on the bed and he lies on top of you and fuck you that way ... you will both cum like crazy