Virgin with serious problems pleas help
Posted Wed May 30, 2007 10:21 PM
I have been talking with this girl online for a month or so i have know her for a while she used to hang out with my brother and was always round my house. and was always very nice to me. she started calling me about 1 month ago and i have only got to see her once in that time and we talk online alot until about a week ago when she started ignoring me. that was after i asked her to hang out just me and her. after she never responed to my messages i kept asking and she blocked me and flipped out saying i was annoying and never message her anymore. she eventuall unblocked me and sayed she did not mean it and it was all good. but she still wont anser my messages. she does have a boyfriend but i told her that i just wanted to hangout as friends. i just sit around here doing nothing or working with my parents and i just cant stand it anymore.
This is so frustrating i have been crying every nigh i feel so shitty
Posted Wed May 30, 2007 11:09 PM
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Posted Thu May 31, 2007 05:02 AM
What do you mean you have a lot of weird stuff? Expand on what you mean by weird stuff please. Sounds to me like you are a computer geek like the rest of us lol.. find yourself a girl who is into the stuff you are.
Posted Thu May 31, 2007 05:33 AM
Basically, before you can have any kind of romance, you need to be very good friends with someone; someone who cares for your every need. You do not want to be USED. Obviously, you have not found that yet. Because you care for someone does not mean they care for you. Trying to make that happen sometimes becomes frustrating. So, in this case, you need to find another friend.
There is nothing as bad as 2 people being or living together who do not like each other...so do not rush things. Take your time and things will happen by themselves. When you find the right friend, you will know it. Till then, keep yourself busy with the normal things you do in life. Physical need sometimes keeps us from thinking clearly so we wind up with the wrong person. There is someone right for you...you just haven't found her yet.
Posted Sun Jun 03, 2007 09:51 PM
but about what i was talking about before this latest girl i really like i have been talking to she has a boyfriend but at at this point i am fine with just being friends i doubt she will have a boy friend very long she has gone has like 3 or 4 in the past year ive known her and she picks assholes alot so they dont stay togather long. but i talked to her a few days ago and she said she was ignoring me wouldent talk to me was becouse i asked her to hangout. she said she needed to get to know me better before we hung out just the 2 of us. i dont know if shes just saying this or if its really true but its hard to get to konw somone jsut talking on the computer. but when i do talk to girls i am nice but i see all these other guys who act like total idiots and are complete ass holes and they completly ignore me like i dont even exist and talk to them.
Posted Mon Jun 04, 2007 02:47 AM
Have you got a job? You didnt mention if you did or not, and well if you havnt and spend all or most of your day inside a job will help, even a menial pub / bar / club job will give you a little help in meeting people and along with conversation with the rest of the human race you will also find it builds confidence. Dont expect to be shagging all the pretty ladies in one night though, it takes time and character to build confidence, but i am sure it will happen if you want it to.
And then when you are confident in your job, surroundings and the people you talk to.. the women will feed off this and hunt you down
So also if you have a job are you meeting the right people through it? are you enjoying it etc..
And now for some more bad news.. the first girl you manage to do the midnight dancing with will more than likely mess your head and heart up so much you will wish it never happened.. but as you grow old you realise that this is just another lesson in life. Take it, learn from it, be strong because of it.
You cant expect realisticly to find love without getting out there and saying hello to a few people
in the meanwhile chin up, head back, walk tall and be strong.