Anyways, the last nfew weeks I have been talking to this very pretty 27 year old (I am 23). She seems very fond of me. Last night we spoke on the phone for the first time; we spoke for nearly an hour. We got along GREAT.
During the conversation, she said there was something she had to tell me before we met.
She tells me her and her ex husband were swingers, and she's really open minded and very sexual etc. She told me the swinger lifestyle requires you to be clean, because if you give a disease to someone you know, that's worse than giving it to a random person.
I am nervous because I am a virgin, and I don't want to regret my first time. By the time I realized how to talk to girls (about 3 years ago) I developed standards. I also am nervous, is because my parents are religious and would not be happy if they knew, I feel like i would be lying to them. Plus, should I lose it, I would just be like everyone else.
Also, how do I know she is clean?
Although no on here can tell me what to do/what not to do, I would like any insight from those who have experienced such a dilemma.
This post has been edited by Mark1055: Thu Jan 12, 2012 12:21 PM