Posted Fri Jan 20, 2012 05:47 PM
She doesn't know I'm bi and I want to have a lot of fun with the MFm, I'm worry it will freak her out with I go down on him, what should I do?
Posted Fri Jan 20, 2012 06:10 PM
Posted Sat Jan 21, 2012 10:24 PM
Posted Sun Jan 22, 2012 05:46 PM
In a nut shell you should cover.
Who can touch who, where and how they can touch them.
What type of play is allowed, example; BSDM or not.
What type of protection is going to be used by who and when.
These rules need to be covered in depth, for example you going down on the other guy "spontaneously" may shock him and your s/o and make you look like a real jerk if it is not covered.
There maybe something this guy may want to do that would make you or your s/o unconformable or maybe your s/o will do something that you do want. This all needs to be covered so no one is shocked and you can all have a good time.
There should always be a safety word so if someone wants something to stop, there is no confusion.
Posted Thu Feb 16, 2012 12:28 PM
Posted Tue Feb 21, 2012 10:24 AM
Maybe start jokingly dropping hints and see how she reacts. My opinion, and only my opinion, is a man would take his female partner hooking up with another woman unexpectedly a lot better than a woman would take her male partner with a man. It seems if a woman goes both ways people call her kinky but if a man goes both ways people call him a homosexual. Again, just my opinion.