Granting a sexual wish Have you or would you offer your wife or husband a chance
Posted Mon Jan 23, 2012 11:26 AM
We both gave each other an opportunity to have such an experience, one time, one time only. Have you?
Posted Mon Jan 23, 2012 11:31 AM
Posted Mon Jan 23, 2012 08:44 PM
Posted Thu Jan 26, 2012 06:40 PM
My wife knows this too, I have told her that would try anything she wishes, any time, any where.
Posted Thu Jan 26, 2012 07:15 PM
So be honest with yourself and your partner - if you're uncomfortable, talk about it, get to the reason why, and maybe you can get your head around it. If not, say no.
For example, I would be happy for her to do anything that she wants with her body; to do some things with mine? Not really. If she wants rough sex, nipple/vulva torture, pissing or crapping on one another, I'll pass. It's degrading/demeaning, it doesn't say pleasure to me - no thanks.
A threesome or foursome, getting sexual with our own gender, I'm not into it, but I'll try it. If it doesn't work for me, she needn't stop because I couldn't handle it.
The gift cannot also be a "okay, my turn" kind of thing. That's just manipulation: I got someone I want to be with, so I get my partner to get with a guy, so I can step out without consequence: "Well, you fucked somebody else - why can't I?"
Again, talk about all this stuff first, not only to avoid hurt between you, but to avoid the discomfort that the other person's going to feel by being drawn into your private drama.
Posted Fri Jan 27, 2012 08:31 AM