anal sex tips (hetro)
Posted Fri Feb 10, 2012 03:06 PM
Me and my girlfriend have decided that it is something that we want to try, although neither of us have tried it before.
We want to make sure that everything is done right.
so any tips?
(thanks in advance, sorry if it's been posted anywhere else)
Posted Fri Feb 10, 2012 03:22 PM
Take your time, don't rush into it, my girlfriend and i used fingers for a couple of weeks until we tried it for real, it got her comfortable and used to the feeling of being touched somewhere so different.
When it comes to the actual sex, i slid just the head of my penis in, and i let her adjust herself, she took a few deep breaths, then slid down on it some more, then stopped again, few more breaths and kept on doing this until it was as deep as she found pleasurable.
Even though i was really tempted to go hard and rough, i let her do ALL the work, that way then I couldn't hurt her.
We had a little 'mishap' on our first time, but we managed to laugh it off together which made her a lot more confident and comfortable. I would highly recommend using an anal douche beforehand so its as clean as possible.
Hope this helps a little!
Keep us updated and enjoy!
Posted Fri Feb 10, 2012 03:46 PM
Posted Fri Feb 10, 2012 04:02 PM
Posted Fri Feb 10, 2012 04:27 PM
The trick is go at a snails pace. One must learn how to walk before they can run.....same analogy. After several weeks of playimg around, she should be more comfortable and able to move on to the next step. If you move too fast, that few minutes of pleasure for you ( and pain for her ) will turn into a lifetime of no anal sex for you.
Also as suggested, using an enima will help remove some of the mental issues most girls have in regards to anal sex. Once the area is prepped, its ready to play on an open clean field.
Good luck, and remember, do not rush into it.
Posted Sat Feb 11, 2012 12:24 AM
I used my fingers several different times with my ex before we finally did it. Start off slowly and make sure she's really turned on. Spooning seemed to be the best position.