Ladies, what do you think of male virgins?
Posted Thu Mar 22, 2012 02:34 PM
Posted Thu Mar 22, 2012 03:14 PM
I suppose for some the opportunity hasn't presented itself, or they didn't know how to make the most of their chances.
As well, though, for a guy I find attractive the idea of him being inexperienced is appealing, I'm not as worried about being compared to other women (at least not real-world ones!), and I feel better about not being one of many women he's had.
There's more risk of things getting too emotional or serious though and I hate the idea of hurting someone.
Posted Thu Mar 22, 2012 03:17 PM
Posted Thu Mar 22, 2012 04:57 PM
I don't think there's anything wrong with a guy being a virgin in his 20s. I'm not a guy, but I was a virgin until I was 23, and I'm glad I waited because it was wonderful.
The only thing I would want if I was going to get involved with a guy who's a virgin is for him to be honest with me. I know that's a terrifying thought and that the last thing you probably want a girl to know is that you're a virgin. But - and I can't speak for all women, of course - I like to think I'd be very understanding about it. If I know a guy is a virgin, I'd know not to put too much pressure on him the first time to go forever, know exactly how to touch me, etc. And my guy was very understanding and made me feel good about my first time, so I'd want to do the same for someone else.
Posted Thu Mar 22, 2012 05:26 PM
I was well below the age of 18 when I lost my V card, and I do regret not waiting longer, but I wouldnt of been able to wait until I was in my 20's.
I don't think I could be with a virgin at this stage of my life...I can't be someone's "teacher".
Posted Thu Mar 22, 2012 05:51 PM
Posted Thu Mar 22, 2012 06:06 PM
This post has been edited by Olive: Thu Mar 22, 2012 06:06 PM
Posted Thu Mar 22, 2012 06:21 PM
Posted Thu Mar 22, 2012 08:14 PM
Posted Thu Mar 22, 2012 09:04 PM
I was never waiting, but for some reason I always got stuck in the friend zone. I've had a shit ton female friends and still do. I'm not shy about talking to do girls nor am I one of those always hitting on them.
Doesn't help my case though when I'm a 6'6", 300 pounds uber nerd.
Posted Thu Mar 22, 2012 11:37 PM
Posted Fri Mar 23, 2012 12:25 PM
If i had waited and read more about sexuality in my early 20's and then lost it, for that time period I could have been a much better lover. my .02
Posted Fri Mar 23, 2012 12:56 PM
I think the main problem with virgins creating a nightmare out of their first time comes when they have been watching too much porn. I have never taken anyone's virginity, nor I'm looking to do that, but whenever I'm with an inexperienced fellow, it seems a great deal of effort goes into make him understand that sex is not like he's seen it in porn. I suppose, these guys give me some credit because I know what I'm talking about, not because I'm older or more experienced.
To all of you virgin guys, porn is the worst sex teacher you will ever find.
This post has been edited by Olive: Fri Mar 23, 2012 12:57 PM