I've been dating a lovely guy for a month now.
I've had a lot more experience than him, and its always important for me to please my partner. We had sex one night he stayed over, and after about half an hour i became too tired so we stopped. In the morning, i still felt tired half way through sex and I paused to take a sip of water but as my boyfriend was about to go on top, his penis went flaccid.
I told him I felt slightly disapointed in myself because I like to satisfy my partner, i.e. for him to finish. I asked him why he thought it had happened and he said maybe it was because I seemed too tired to go on, which was true but i was willing to carry on.
This type of situation happens rarely, and my boyfriend and I enjoy regular, good sex but it's always been important for me to satisfy my partner, as well as my own needs - which my bf certainly fulfills.
I guess I kind of feel a bit insecure about it, but 99% of the time I have no problem with sex. I suppose everyone is entitled to an off-day - I joked that I'd finally met my match with someone who enjoys sex as much as me.
Anyway, the point is ... can anybody relate to this scenario?
This post has been edited by katypru: Sat Mar 24, 2012 10:41 AM