Long Distance Relationships
Posted Fri Mar 30, 2012 03:45 PM
I just wanted to see if there are any other members on here that are currently in an LDR? I am engaged and my fiance doesn't live with me. Before I moved away for school people said it wasn't easy but I didn't really understood what they meant. I left at the end of July in 2011 and now I am about 2-3 months away before he finally moves in with me. I am wondering to those people who have been or are currently in one how did you keep the spark alive?
Posted Fri Mar 30, 2012 03:49 PM
Not sure how we keep the spark alive. But we talk to each other pretty much everyday.
But it's still tough o_O
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Posted Fri Mar 30, 2012 08:02 PM
The separation isn't fun, but if you're really meant to be together then it won't matter in the long term, as you're going to be together again in the end. Flirty texts, phone calls, emails, and photos will help keep the spark alive. Also writing scenarios of what you'd like to be doing to him if he were there and sending it by email will help keep his anticipation high.
Posted Sat Mar 31, 2012 06:39 AM
Things that help: email, phone calls, video calls, snail mail, small gifts to each other that mean something, photos, videos, IM or texts etc.
Jensen and I have movie dates on a Sunday (my time) where we choose a movie and watch it at the same time and IM each other while we're watching it.
We also IM all the time, talk on the phone when we can, video chat when we can, play around on here, we've just started playing a draw something and words with friends too
Having an end date that you will be physically together will help keep you sane and horny lol.
I've found I can cope fairly well because of all the stuff we do together....but there are times that I just physically need my man....I'm not feeling the best at the moment and all I've wanted all day is cuddles from him..the dogs just aren't cutting it as my nursemaids lol.
We will be making up for lost time come October
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Posted Mon Apr 02, 2012 07:01 PM
Great story It definitely must be a great feeling after spending so much time separated to finally be in each others arms
Posted Thu Apr 05, 2012 07:56 PM
I want to add you as a friend