Money to finish college Guys only help please
Posted Sat Apr 21, 2012 07:36 PM
Ive just started a job at a massage parlor. I give massages for almost nothing and whatever I decide to offer after is for me.
Every guy Ive seen wants sex, I refuse and only offer a HJ. The pay has been OK but not enough.
The last two best paying massages I gave had each tried to reach under my skirt and I pushed them away but they both asked to smell my panties while I gave then a HJ. I was OK with that and got tipped well.
Guys should I offer this to guys that want to have sex and refuse? Is this hot to all guys? Or should I reserve for the guys that ask?
Posted Sat Apr 21, 2012 08:32 PM
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Posted Sun Apr 22, 2012 11:03 AM
I hear you not wanting to go straight for BJs or Sex, and I think that is fine. One or two things that might get you more interest and appreciation than the panty smelling thing is to offer to give the massage in your sexy underwear or naked for an increased cost, or just make a "deluxe rub down" where you do alot of eye contact, happen to rub your legs on him while your working on him, and do the deep breathing thing while working up the the HJ. I guess I am saying you have other classy options available to you before BJ or sex that will mean alot more to your horney clients than "want to smell my panties." Just my two cents.
(and just as a P.S. not that you need our opinions, but getting a good education is worth alot of trouble. And there are tons of harder/sketchier/immoral things one could be doing to get there than what you are doing. So dont let anyone make you feel bad for doing things the way you are.)
Posted Sun Apr 22, 2012 06:59 PM
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Posted Sun Apr 22, 2012 11:26 PM
Do whatever you're comfortable with, for however much money you're comfortable doing it for. But the member that advised you to find another revenue stream probably has a good idea...at least it's legal and removes the potential for you getting into trouble with the law.
But to each their own. Good luck.
This post has been edited by ilyushin: Sun Apr 22, 2012 11:26 PM
Posted Mon Apr 23, 2012 09:48 AM
Any reputable massage parlor....one licensed by the town or state will do exactly what they should ...and that is to ease muscle aches and reduce tension. Realistically, if a jacked up guy should "accidentally" get a boner, stop, close the curtains/door, leave the room and let him masturbate if he wants or leave after paying. You need to leave the day with respect and dignity as you arrived and not the reputation you would soon pick up as a Massage Parlor Whore. KAZ
This post has been edited by kazantzakis: Mon Apr 23, 2012 09:50 AM
Posted Mon Apr 23, 2012 12:40 PM
And the money you need to finish school on top of that. Just saying...
Don't mind the shaming others will put upon you... Mind your own business, and make your own decisions based on your situation. Don't put yourself at risk unnecessarily, and abide the law. Who cares if you're the whore, the bitch or whatever... You'll have your diploma, and soon enough, it'll be another page on your life. If for whatever reason the past comes to haunt you, don't deny it. You did what you had to, and it's not for anyone to judge you. Always stay on the right side of the law though.
Posted Mon Apr 23, 2012 09:01 PM
When if comes to what they want, that's totally up to what your willing to give for the pay. If I were you I would start a client out with the hand job and see how much they give you afterwards. If its generous then and I were comfortable with the situation I would go ahead and take things up a notch next time. Maybe a blow job. And so on. (Of course this won't work for occasional or one time customers but you just need to make the call depending on what youre comfortable with).
One thing you could do is start getting a feel for the type of guys who tip you large. Try and stereotype the customer that would be more likely to give you more money. This could be a good way to make a call on what your going to give in a session. At the end of the day it's all about what you want to give vs what you want to take. (The love you make is equal to the cash you take).
Posted Mon Apr 23, 2012 09:11 PM
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Posted Tue Apr 24, 2012 12:40 AM
They are here Jade.... most chinese and thai massage places hit you up as soon as you walk in the door.
Posted Wed Apr 25, 2012 10:19 PM
Can you take a simester or two off and move home or with other family to bank up some funds? Get a job somehow related to your education where you gain invaluable experience and you get exposure to prospective employers. Its a good way for a prospective employer to get to know you and see what you can do - With good experience I bet that employer would be more than happy to have a job for you when you graduate or at least give you a fantastic reference. This way you are graduating with a head start instead of trying to compete with everyone else that is now out of school looking for a job.
As I said I am not passing judgment - As a father of a few college age young women and men - This is the things i would like them to concider.
This post has been edited by Billy Hung: Wed Apr 25, 2012 10:22 PM