Bi curious girl gets caught. female needs help explaining to her friends.
Posted Fri Apr 27, 2012 02:23 PM
We have not talked about it and things are weird between us now. I know my friend is very straight and probably thinks I am a freak. I joined this site to get some help on what to do about this situation.
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Posted Thu May 03, 2012 05:18 PM
That's awful. I've been in that situation before and it sucks. If there's one thing that helps though, it's knowing that you still have other friends and loved ones who don't care what your orientation is or isn't, but who you are as a person.
Posted Thu May 03, 2012 07:26 PM
One good fish; the advice you received from here was advice which should be heard and followed, it is good advice. Your " friend " should not have given you the advice she did, she has overstepped your personal boundary and obvioously knows nothing about your relationship with your partner, so keeping it simple, if she won't accept you as you are, that's her problem, and I suggest you explore your sexuality, when you have the opportunity and confidence to do so. You will find many friends in the bisexual\gay\lesbian communities, enjoy
Posted Thu May 03, 2012 07:28 PM
Yeah, what he said ^^^
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Posted Fri May 04, 2012 04:41 PM
^^ I agree ^^ It is a hard spot to be in, but if she was a real friend she would be understanding of you and know you well enough to know that you would never feel that way toward her out of respect for your friendship. I have a friend that knows I'm Bisexual, and she is 110% straight- although she doesnt agree with my lifestyle choice she has never passed judgement on me about it- she has always said, whatever works for you and makes you happy, just dont think it is something I will ever do. and I am fine with that- but I just think it is really crappy how this "friend" has treated you.
Posted Fri May 04, 2012 05:08 PM
Thank you all so much. I had a hard time with posting this problem. You all have been very nice, and I cant thank you enough. I have always looked at other girls and found them to be exciting. My husband is over seas and she knows it is a sore point with me. Things have been in overdrive without him here to help me.
Posted Thu May 10, 2012 09:28 AM
Explore what feels right to you...go for it and good luck!