Posted Mon Jun 04, 2012 06:40 AM
Posted Mon Jun 04, 2012 07:01 AM
In other cases, I think the ones you are referring to that may not respond have several communication venues on the go at the same time and are busy with looking after their more important or desirable ones first, never getting to yours for lack of time or disregard all together perhaps.
Some will in fact respond with a quick one or two word thing perhaps just to be polite and more or less indicate by the lack of effort a lack of concern to engage you too.
So it would seem that if you are not getting a response, then they simply are choosing to ignore you. What is the point you ask of having the service...good question...some of them seem to enjoy it so I guess that is reason enough.
Posted Mon Jun 04, 2012 07:10 AM
Posted Mon Jun 04, 2012 07:11 AM
There are people like myself, my husband and others, who leave their computer on all of the time. Many people don't like to chat, but do use the service for messages. Posting to messages on a site, like this, is different than having a personal conversation, which could also be cause of jealousy is some cases. Don't be offended if someone doesn't get back to you. Many people, yourself included, are curious, but it doesn't have to go past there. The other thing is that nobody believes anything anymore. You could be a kid for all we know and could get someone in trouble. Smart people tend to lay low and communicate via a buffer. You can do what you want and people can get back to you. Be careful. You could post all of your questions, comments and naked pics you want here without that hastle.
Posted Mon Jun 04, 2012 07:30 AM
Posted Mon Jun 04, 2012 08:21 AM
Posted Mon Jun 04, 2012 08:21 AM
So maybe you should try playing hard to get......the less you want them, the more they want you instead.
Posted Mon Jun 04, 2012 09:17 AM
This post has been edited by Saysoon: Mon Jun 04, 2012 09:34 AM
Posted Mon Jun 04, 2012 09:28 AM
some women here aren't interested in private chat though even if they do have raunchy blogs and photos of their pussy up. plus i know when i used to post pictures i got a lot of messages and it was pretty much impossible to stay on top of all of them, so even in the times when i did respond to PMs a lot still got unanswered because i really just didn't have the time, and i assume that is the case for some people here.
or maybe you're just messaging women who don't have an interest in you. again, them posting pics doesn't guarantee that they will be.
Posted Tue Jun 05, 2012 08:50 AM
Posted Tue Jun 05, 2012 09:04 AM
Posted Tue Jun 05, 2012 02:12 PM
Posted Thu Jul 05, 2012 09:49 PM
I know what you mean. There is only one young lady I interact with outside of here and that is on Facebook. I am really here for friendship since U have hod horrible luck with online "relationships".
Posted Thu Jul 05, 2012 09:55 PM
Posted Fri Jul 06, 2012 03:16 PM
But playing hard to get and being mean are two different things.
If someone's actually mean to me on SF, they're just some random stranger, and why should I care? I'll just blow them off and not think twice about it. But if they're polite and just not overwhelming with the messages, I have no problem having a conversation.
I don't really know exactly how to explain why I talk to the members I talk to, but something made me want to talk to you, sierra. I agree with one part of what Rob said, and that's the part about not trying too hard. I'm not saying that you are trying too hard, but I don't want you to be too down on yourself if others choose not to talk to you. It doesn't necessarily mean that there's something wrong with you or something about you that turns people off. You and I have always had lovely conversations, I think.
Posted Sat Jul 07, 2012 06:10 PM
Posted Wed Jul 18, 2012 02:50 AM