Help getting back out there
Posted Mon Jun 11, 2012 04:31 PM
Posted Mon Jun 11, 2012 04:39 PM
For a little practice, you might want to wander into live chat sometime. The initial rush can be a bit intimidating, but it is a place where you can practice a bit.
Posted Mon Jun 11, 2012 05:14 PM
Posted Mon Jun 11, 2012 05:28 PM
Dreamed of Venice - "seeing and dy" - with it's masques .... but even ther might be ONE person that knows who you are - and tell it to someone else and so on....
What would I give ofr a place, where nobody knows me - where I could follow my longings, my believes, my wishes....
Just in my daydreams I'm visiting this place, wanting, to become it true......
And as it even not comfort you, miss hEireann, think of me as one, that will be always "here", to hug you and hold you you ... even as Saysoon.....
Posted Mon Jun 11, 2012 05:44 PM
This post has been edited by Saysoon: Mon Jun 11, 2012 05:46 PM
Posted Mon Jun 11, 2012 11:49 PM
what i'm saying is you're definitely not the only one. See if you can entice the lads into making the advances towards you. and if you see something you really like, go for it.
Posted Mon Oct 29, 2012 08:25 AM
Posted Mon Oct 29, 2012 08:42 AM
I have been there myself. Focus on the positives, the stuff you get done on a daily basis. You have kid(s) and you work etc. Look at all the good things you have done, on a daily basis and give yourself a pat on the back. The only negative is your ex. keep that at the back of your mind and the good things at the front.
Don't sell yourself short, you have lots to offer to the right guy.
Someone else here who believes in you will contact you later.
This post has been edited by semperslut: Mon Oct 29, 2012 08:42 AM
Posted Mon Oct 29, 2012 09:20 AM
Posted Mon Oct 29, 2012 09:43 AM
In a very similar position myself, I think I am just not ready.
I hope comments on here can help us both though, best of luck x
Posted Mon Oct 29, 2012 10:17 AM
Posted Tue Oct 30, 2012 08:44 PM
Posted Tue Oct 30, 2012 10:35 PM
oh, i definitely bite lol
Posted Tue Oct 30, 2012 11:59 PM
As this post is almost 5 months old, Any updates.
Posted Sun Nov 04, 2012 01:34 PM
fingers and everything else crossed. will let you know whats happens. :fingers crossed: