Posted Sun Jun 17, 2012 03:53 PM
Posted Sun Jun 17, 2012 03:58 PM
Posted Sun Jun 17, 2012 04:27 PM
Posted Sun Jun 17, 2012 05:24 PM
but you also need to do some solo homework. You can't get a man's unless you know what he needs to do. Here are just the highlights:
>Don't make it a project. As long as you've been together, you are comfortable talking about most things, so keep it light. If it happens, great, but you both are happy, so don't bring anxiety into your lives.
>Track your feelings and thoughts: what goes through your mind as you feel aroused? What happens when you give up? He goes limp, you get tired or get cramps, you both get frustrated? Locate and talk about your feelings, and be honest. Hearing an uncomfortable truth will be worth it if you can climax 3 or more times a night.
>Work towards reaching orgasm for you. It is about your pleasure, and so often women mis-time their own climax to accommodate the man. Say what you need, when you need it. If he comes too soon, have him masturbate a few hours before (or less), so he'll have the stamina to focus on you. It's not about harder, faster, deeper; patience will bring you off much more effectively. You need to be self-centered if you want to get orgasmic, so go on and git you some!
Posted Sun Jun 17, 2012 06:40 PM
I have been told women have to train their body to have an orgasm how true that is i dont know!
Posted Sun Jun 17, 2012 06:59 PM
Posted Sun Jun 17, 2012 07:15 PM
Posted Sun Jun 17, 2012 10:06 PM
I am reading a book that is designed to make women feel good about themselves and heir sexuality. It's called "Becoming Orgasmic" by Julia R. Heiman & Joseph Lopiccolo.
I recommend you read this and follow the program, it is a little involved and takes time, but if this is truly what you want it may just help you in some way.
I have come much closer to the feelings of orgasms and squirting during just sex alone which is major progress for me.
Hope this helps, good luck and don't stress too much.
This post has been edited by Harmony: Sun Jun 17, 2012 10:08 PM
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Posted Mon Jun 18, 2012 03:29 AM
Posted Mon Jun 18, 2012 04:06 AM
After that she was more relaxed and they got more and more regular, and eventually we got a Magic Wand....... well she was cumming like crazy with that. She would orgasm at least 4 or 5 times before I would cum using the wand on her clit while I fucked her. And what would blow her away was using the wand on her clit while I fisted her, she would build up her orgasms, each one getting more intense until she had a huge one which would leave her away with the fairies for about 10 mins.
Posted Mon Jun 18, 2012 05:16 AM