Ive been going out with my girlfriend for nearly 2 1/2 years now, im 19 shes 18 (19 next month).
At the end of april her dad suggested she invite her mechanic out, hes 21 or something like that..
She went out to the bar with her friend and they saw him and his friends there, they started talking and she ended up spending most of the night (all of the night if you count phone) talking to him. (Meanwhile when she told me about it she described it as a 'get together between him and her)
He went to the strippers about an hour and a half after they met up but they were constantly texting, 80-90 text messages including phone calls that went for around 10 mins each, and these were within 2-5 minutes of each, constantly for about 7 hours. She told me she had no idea that he was going but shes the one that invited him... Argh
After the strippers he came back, they all went to his house and he asked her if it would be okay with me which she replied yes. (Our relationship is not an open one, i would of expected her to know that i wouldnt be okay with it because i know she would of gone hulk if i did the same thing..)
Anyway as the story goes on (sorry if its all over the place just still struggling with it all) they all went back to his house and didnt sleep all night till she went home about mid morning the next day. She told me that they wer in the kitchen and the lounge talking about her car and what she had to get fixed on it, then everyone went to bed (while her friend was off in the bedroom with his friend), she was sitting on the couch with him and asked for a blanket which he pulled out from under his sleeping friend to give to her.
When her dad picked her up from his place in the morning he told her to not lead him on and she was so angry by him saying this and couldnt even see why he would think that.
Her friend (not the one there on the night) spoke to me about a month and a half ago and told me that all 4 of them had actually been in bed but nothing had happened.. Apparently he has a girlfriend but he was hinting to her all night that she never gives him any sexual attention. She didnt even tell me about the bed part because apparently she felt really bad.
Edit: She also txt him to come out the following Saturday night with me and her, she told him that only her and her friends were going and he replied with "Oh yeah i should be pretty keen sounds good"
Ever since this happened i have felt like something in our relationship just isnt right, i cant put my finger on it.. i constantly have dreams of her cheating on me.
If anybody could help my situation with advice it would be greatly appreciated, i just feel so weird and like somethings not right about this, i love my girlfriend to bits and im trying to get over i all i just cant stand the lying like that if something didnt happen.. im losing my mind lol..
Thanks for listening to my huge spiel
This post has been edited by seraka: Tue Jul 03, 2012 08:26 AM