My boyfriend and I started having sex and we want to use condoms, but he's extremely uncomfortable wearing one. He will get hard, then from the few seconds it takes to put on a condom, he will lose any sort of erection he had. I don't know if it's that it completely gets him out of the mood or what, but its very discouraging. I told him it probably takes time to get used to one, but he seemed ashamed or upset we couldn't do anything. We tried him going in a few times (both of us are clean), then putting one on, but he just gets soft. Any ideas? Is it the condom? Is it mental stuff? Or an early onset of ED?
Thanks for any advice you can give!
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