Special Order Men For Women
Posted Mon Jul 09, 2012 06:03 PM
I'm curious what would happen if I put a profile on a singles or Craigslist site looking for a 'specific' kind of guy. The same way men can find what they want if they are willing to.. ahem...'inve$t' more. So to speak. I know, it's not so diffficult for women to find willing partners but what if that's not what you want? Want a guy who's pretty, hunky, between 20-35, well-hung, without issues and available? Someone more specific and don't have the time to search and wade through the rest to find him? A guy that you might otherwise say 'out of my reach'? Men can find this, why can't women? Has anyone tried?
I get come ons all the time from guys online but I always feel like they want me to entertain them, even online. Or they're older, have no hair, big belly or live too far away to see me. I just don't have the energy for this. When I get that coveted hall pass, I want to make the most of it!
Would you consider a situation like this? Is this too crass and shallow? I imagine it might make a few of you resentful as it does women. Would you be capable of 'going there' with a woman who might not exactly be your ideal but is willing to make it worth your while?
Posted Mon Jul 09, 2012 09:56 PM
Posted Tue Jul 10, 2012 05:08 AM
But however, if you are in fact serious about it and really are going to entertain a response that fits the bill, then I don't think any of the men that respond are going to have any issues...you have spelled out exactly what you are looking for in a man so if he accepts the invite based on that he will respond or if problems with it, then pass.
I also think what you are proposing is part of a growing trend...not so much a relationship in a serious way, but a more relaxed and casual thing. I see a lot of folks that simply do not want to be tied down but rather just have a meet up here and there and then leave.
By the way, not all of us "older guys" are as you described...no hair, big bellies, but may in fact live far away. There is still a lot of us fellas out here that can deal with the young bucks anyday in all the mentioned catagories...and more.
As far as wading goes, I don't see this generating any less than other sites you are going to try so there may be some weeding out to do regardless of where you put the ad.
As far as out of reach goes, in any way you want to put that, I think that in this day and age being out of reach is only limited to what your character is...you may not be the catch of the day enough to keep interested parties interested in you or you could be the opposite. But if you have an appeal to someone, that is all you need in my opinion...close proximity or not.
Posted Tue Jul 10, 2012 11:16 AM
No, I wouldn't post an ad (and haven't)searching for this if I wasn't serious about it. I don't toy with people.
I do like older men. Very much in fact. But be honest guys, the women you fantasize about from TV, movies or porn do not bear much resemblance to the ones you can actually date. Guys want youthful looks. In the absence of any other knowledge about a potential partner it's how we make our selection especially if it's only for a one night stand. Turnabout is fair.
I've learned there are 'companions' available for women but you really need to be in a large center like New York, LA or Houston to avail yourself to the service. But for men they are everywhere.
I may try going back and just being more specific about what I want and see if I can't find someone who is game.
Posted Tue Jul 10, 2012 02:35 PM
Now, that's where similarities ends. It is very much different ball game if provider of the services is a male or a female. If it is a female, all she is required is to be willing to offer the said services. She actually doesn't have to be 'ready' or even to enjoy in order to 'perform' - there are plenty of different lubes readily available on the market. And we all know about the fake moans and sighs all to well. It happens, although very often for quite different reasons, in committed relationships so there's no reason why this shouldn't be used for the same effect in business encounters.
It is very much different if a man is provider of these services. No matter what, he has to achieve and maintain erection of a sufficient quality and required duration. No amount of words, looks, groans, and moans can mask a limp cock. Before some say that supplements such as Viagra, Levitra, and such are available they should understand that these are there just to ensure that 'mechanic' parts are ready to perform. Problem with these supplements is that they can't provide desire to perform. Even if everything 'downstairs' is in perfectly good working order nothing will ever happen if there is no desire to perform. Man's most important sex organ is not few inches between his belly button but between his ears. If physical attraction is not there or it is seriously lacking then it's game over even before it starts.
This post has been edited by SirFoggy: Tue Jul 10, 2012 02:39 PM
Posted Tue Jul 10, 2012 11:59 PM