Posted Wed Jul 11, 2012 10:22 PM
I have only ever been with one woman. I am 5'7" and very skinny. At the time I think I weighed about 120. She was approximately 5'5" and about 100lbs. As a male it felt nice being able to sort of dominate her. And dominate I don't mean anything extreme. For explain better, one time she was on the phone with her mom and she was laying on the bed stomach down. I got on top of her and just gave light kisses on her neck and my hands started out lightly tickling her stomach. She squirmed a little so I stopped. Then I laid flat on her and my hands roamed under her tshirt and to her breasts. She wasn't wearing a bra. She just ignored it and continued talking to her mom. I just laid on top of her for a few minutes just listening to her talk to her mom. Then my hands slid down to her stomach and I tried to wiggle them into her pants. It was at this point that she tried to turn over to prevent me but my with my weight on top of her it was difficult for her. To further restrain her from moving, I moved my arm under her breasts and to the other side of her to keep her still. By now, I was able to put my other hand into her pants. She struggled a little but when I had my fingers rubbing her clit she just gave in. At this point, her breathing became course and she was just giving quick responses to her mom. As I increased my pace, she quickly told her mom she had to go and hung up. She buried her head into the pillow and I kept rubbing until her body jerked and she orgasmed.
I guess the point of this story was that I was able to 'control' her and force her to orgasm. And I'm not sure I could do that to someone who was bigger than me. Or if I did it would be different. If any of that makes sense.
Oh another story just came to my mind. One time when we were in the shower, I started out face to face with her and pressing her against the wall. Then lifted one of her legs to my side and slowly lifted the other leg and had her wrapped around me. I had my hands on her butt and was kind of pulling her up and down on me. I even was lightly rubbing her anal area. She tried to keep herself up with one arm and the other arm trying to stop me but I said no no, keep your arm on me or else I might drop you accidentally! So then I kind of had access to her anal and was able to slowly put one finger in. Not all the way, just a little. It was such a turn on to 'control' her.
In both stories I feel like control is a bad word. But I can't think of a better word. But you get the point. Manipulate? Sort of... Dominate?
Posted Wed Jul 11, 2012 10:54 PM
Posted Fri Jul 13, 2012 02:40 PM
Truly confident men don't need to be bigger than a woman to be able to fel sexually powerful.
I've always found it attractive when a man has no issue dating a taller woman.
One of my shorter exes actually broke up with a woman who was exactly his height and refused to wear heels out in public with him because it would make her taller.
Posted Fri Jul 13, 2012 03:43 PM
Posted Fri Jul 13, 2012 05:16 PM
This post has been edited by mister_objective: Fri Jul 13, 2012 05:16 PM
Posted Fri Jul 13, 2012 06:02 PM
My wife on the other hand is very slim and same height as me. She's into cycling and gym and she looks very very good in her exercise attire. obviously during sex she's very very good to look at and being male, visual stimulation is important. Sex is better with her but not because of her having a good body. I can however flip her over and manoeuvre her a lot easier than my ex purely because no one can actually move my ex with the body weight she has.
I must say though, nothing quite beats a women with long slim legs in the air while you're having sex with them. There's no substitute for that.
Posted Fri Jul 13, 2012 06:55 PM
Posted Fri Jul 13, 2012 07:05 PM