I need mind reading capabilities
Posted Fri Aug 10, 2012 03:29 AM
I saw her outside this afternoon and waved and said hello. "Wow its nice to see you can still talk" she said dryly.
I asked her to explain.
"You hardly talk to me anymore. You hardly ever email or call me. Whats up with that? Is there someone in your life? If there is you can still talk to me you know. We can still be friends. I would not kick you to the curb if I ever had a boyfriend. Whuch I don't and probably never will again." She sighed
'Mandi there is no one in my life. If there was I would still make time for you. I did not think you wanted to hear from me every damn day. And there is no chance of me having a girlfriend anytime soon." I replied patientl"
"You did not think?" she replied, raising her voice. Long pause "I am very sorry for yelling at you Gary" she said quietly. Another long pause. "And I don't mind hearing from you every damn day. Or seeing you every damn day.I like being around you and I like talking to you."
We both agreed a long time ago that we would not be boyfriend and girlfriend. But I knew exactly what she meant
"Come over anytime. Call anytime. I do not want to be the one to always have to initiate contact."
I told her I did not want to bother her if she is sleeping. She reached into her purse and handed me a key. "Lose it and I will kick your ass." she said. "If my lights are off then im sleeping. Just let yourself in and come into my room. I am a light sleeper and I will know you are there. There is a spare bed in there or you can get in my bed if you want some company "
I told her that my ability to have sex comes and goes. And lately it has been going and staying gone for a while.
"I love you for who you are. Not for your dick. I am not one of these high maintenance girls that needs a dick in her pussy or shoved down her throat every night. I do not get in the mood for sex often anyway. Gary I have got to get to the airport. Gonna be in Dallas till Sunday. I should be home late Sunday evening. Come on over if you want and keep an eye in the place for me ok?" She gave me a tight hug and a kiss and I feel that she was not wearing a bra. I mentioned it and she said "Shit Gary you have seen them. There aint nothing there. No need to wear one on the plane. See you Sunday night!" Another kiss on the lips and she hopped in her car and was gone.
Now where is my crystal ball?
Posted Fri Aug 10, 2012 06:06 AM
It's unclear if she wants a casual NSA type of thing with you or if she may, deep down, want more from you. That will only be resolved in time... from her comments, it seems to me that she may be hoping for more but trying to keep with the "no relationship" talk that you had already had. Whatever the case it sounds like you have an open invitation to whatever............
Posted Sat Aug 11, 2012 04:40 AM
Me and Mandi both have Aspergers syndrome, a form of autism. I can be eccentric and talk about the same things over and over again, a turnoff to many females. She is the same way but to a lesser extent. I am a weather nerd and talk about weather alot and I asked her a few months ago if I was boring her and she dropped a bomb on me: She minored in Atmospheric Science in college and my weather talk does not bore her at all.
Back on track: I called her last night and I could tell she was happy to hear from me. We had a very nice conversation that lasted for about an hour. Had a good, relaxed feeling afterward. I think what we have is a little more than an NSA relationship but short of a commitment type relationship. If that makes any sense.
Posted Sat Aug 11, 2012 05:12 PM
Posted Sun Aug 12, 2012 02:59 AM
She has had a key to my place for a while. If she sees my car has not moved or any other evidence I have not left my house for a few days she calls me or comes over. That has not happened for several months now.
She will be home late tonight and I plan on visiting, even though she told me she "might be grumpy" since this was a work related trip and she has been working long hours. I have seen her in every mood there is so there wont be any surprises
Posted Sun Aug 12, 2012 10:24 PM
We went in and she took her shoes and socks off and I said "phew" and held my nose. She responded by flipping me the bird. "Asshole" she muttered. Then she stuck her tongue out at me. 'Dickhead" she said with a serious face; a moment later she burst out laughing. "I cannot believe I called you that."
I told her I was hurt.
"Sure you are" Mandi said dryly."You are welcome to stay here as long as you want but im going to warn you I am not going to be a lot of company. "Its that time again(cycle) and I am tired as hell. So if I act bitchy its not because of you. I would be a lot more bitchy if you weren't my friend." That really put me at the top of the world.
One of Mandi's sisters let something slip out a week or so ago that I am not supposed to know: Mandi has been married. She married someone she knew in college and it lasted five years before they split up. Mandi told me when we became friends that she was never married. Several years ago something like this would have upset me, but there has got to be a reason and I respect that.
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