Men, have you ever described her vulva to a woman?
Posted Tue Aug 14, 2012 06:32 PM
Before that though, I had a friend who was very interested in looking at my bits, and I could never thank him enough for introducing me to the experience of multiple orgasms. He did not try anything special, he just looked at me and my fat pussy, opened my bits, and just described me while touching the big scar I have from my children.
I think those two instances were the most significant moments of pleasure in my life. Thanks to men like those, I've been able to enjoy sex every time I get naked, if only because those two men were able to describe me at my most vulnerable without even trying to get anything from me.
Posted Tue Aug 14, 2012 08:35 PM
When I did finally take a good look, I marveled at the incredible variety of women's vulvae. They all have the standard equipment: inner and outer lips, clitoris, G spot, cervix. Beyond those, though, the sizes and shapes and colors and textures amazed me. The dark brown lips on most Asians; the shocking pink when I looked at a black woman's vagina. The tiny bud of a clit, contrasted with those so large, they truly are like a woman's penis. I probed gently with my fingers, to 'see' what I couldn't, and to enjoy those sensations beyond my imagination.
And the hair!
I would say I have a healthy portion of my still photo collection is of the female fur. The endless variety alone is intoxicating- the thick, almost straight hair of asian women, seemingly brushed inward to form a peak, not unlike a Zen garden; the tangerine curls of a natural redhead (add the freckles that usually accompany, and oh my); black women with the tight, kinky curls and dark outer lips, hiding the pink; a blondes' pubic hair that's so light against their skin, it's like a mirage- you have to touch it to be sure it's real; and of course the brunette: doesn't matter how pale or dark her skin is, black pubic hair makes a statement, bold and unabashed - 'this is where the fun starts'...
In the last decade, I've been making up for all the beautiful scenery I'd missed. What a joy!
This post has been edited by Scotty Wright: Tue Aug 14, 2012 08:36 PM
Posted Tue Aug 14, 2012 08:45 PM
Posted Tue Aug 14, 2012 09:12 PM
I have been with men who don't bother much in looking at me... They don't get invited to my bed again for obvious reasons. However, just knowing that I'm worth looking at makes a big difference in my attitude towards men and sex in general. The hunger of being noticed as an object of beauty needs to be sated... And only then, I can feel complete after the act and enjoy those orgasms that have nothing to see with what you see in porn. I figure that there cannot be hard core sex, no submission or even pleasure if a man does not look at a woman in awe.
I feel way too many men mistake the hunger women have about sex... It's not about being complimented like a pretty doll, it's about understanding that she's different than a man, and that she needs to be looked at and discovered before being explored.
Posted Wed Aug 15, 2012 04:20 PM
Women I've been with had reactions from "wth you think you're doing" to total thrill and everything in between. Guess those former ones were not so comfortable with their bodies, sexuality, or both. For some, no matter how much I tried to tell them how beautiful they are, how much I like their scent and taste would make no difference. Some would after some time loosen up and actually start to enjoy my little 'games' and, eventually, enjoy sex much more than they used to. Those who loved it already ...well, needles to say ... they were a lot of fun to be with
Posted Wed Sep 05, 2012 11:15 PM