feeling inadequate to fiancé
Posted Fri Aug 24, 2012 08:58 PM
Posted Fri Aug 24, 2012 09:08 PM
Posted Sat Aug 25, 2012 06:05 AM
Posted Sat Aug 25, 2012 07:48 AM
Posted Sat Aug 25, 2012 09:22 AM
Posted Sat Aug 25, 2012 02:38 PM
All of these recent replies are well said.
Posted Sun Aug 26, 2012 05:11 AM
Posted Sun Aug 26, 2012 07:11 AM
To turn the terms around, if she had smaller breasts than the majority of your exes, would you consider her inadequate? You marry the person for who they are, not the size of their appendages.
I think you are letting your own insecurities put insult where there is none intended.
Posted Sun Aug 26, 2012 12:08 PM
Posted Mon Aug 27, 2012 04:54 PM
Posted Wed Aug 29, 2012 05:29 AM
Just making an observation.
Posted Wed Aug 29, 2012 11:35 AM
Posted Thu Aug 30, 2012 10:33 PM
But here is what happened that day: after a while that we were in bed having sex all her body got contracted again while - I guess - she was coming and she started laughing like crazy and looking at me surprised. Of course the first reaction in my head was "what the hell did I do wrong" so I took a chance and I asked "What's the matter? Are you ok?"
She was still not completely in control of her body and was keep saying "I can't believe it, this is crazy" and you can guess how close I was to jump out of the window BUT when she finally was able to breathe she told me: "OMG, four, do you understand?! Four?" (I did understand but there was nothing weird about that to me) so she added "I thought it was about the size" and then I asked if she slept with guys really bigger than me and she answered "you don't understand, it doesn't matter at all, nobody ever made me come four times, I didn't even know it was possible" and that she felt really lucky!
So the point is that you don't have to think in terms of having other qualities that she will like (e.g. being smart or sweet, which is ok to have of course) to balance it off: they are not substituting the fact that you can give her more sexual pleasure that everyone else, on top of that she told you they were just hurting her!
Giving her the best sex of her life is what makes you a real man, her man!
Posted Fri Aug 31, 2012 12:51 AM
In short it sounds like she just didn't word it properly and from what she did say it sounds like she really does like you and since she's with you and not all these other guys I wouldn't worry about it