Am I homosexual ? Dilema
Posted Sat Jan 19, 2008 07:07 PM
* Kissing didn't appeal to me
* When I stroked his penis (he hasn't touched mine) I was highly put off by looking at it and killed the mood for us.
I was wondering if this means I am not actually gay and prehaps I was just lustful? I enjoyed pleasuring him on the main bit and enjoyed him touching me, quite so that we were cuddling for the most of the night playing with each other bodies instead of really getting to sleep but I'm not really sure if i'm gay or not because of this?
Posted Sat Jan 19, 2008 07:24 PM
Posted Sat Jan 19, 2008 08:54 PM
Posted Sun Jan 20, 2008 02:41 AM
Posted Thu Jan 24, 2008 04:31 PM
I'll admit that I had a serious issue with my feelings toward females at first. There was this girl I loved cuddling with and playing with her hair and such... but anything beyond that didn't really appeal to me at the time. At first I was totally confused, but then I remembered I was the exact same way with my first boyfriend. I just stopped and took a break --before I knew it I was ready and comfortable with everything. I was lucky that eventually I fell in love with the idea of being with a woman as well.
Either way, just relax and stop thinking about it. Do what you're comfortable with and what feels good. You'll either warm up to the things you don't currently like, find out that maybe being with another man just isn't your thing, or you'll learn to be happy doing what you like to do and nothing more. And I wouldn't worry about a label. You don't need to be anything at all Worrying about giving yourself some kind of title may take away from experiences and just cloud your mind.