squirting ? for the guys out there do you like it? honestly?
Posted Mon Sep 03, 2012 08:14 PM
Do you TRUELY like it when the lady squirts? The build up, the just about to happen feeling, the warmth of the liquid, amount, clean up afterward? or is it a turn off, messy, interruption of your system? anything I forgot?
I know it's alot to ask about, and lets face it, guys don't elaborate too much like women do, but do you like when you're woman squirts?
now my story about what happened:
About 6 months ago my husband showed intrest in this. Watched several porn shorts with woman doing it. When having sex with me, he asked me a few times "are you going to squirt for me baby?". I have never ever done it before and we've been together for 20 years. After doing some research, and trying myself, nothing. But he must have been researching too, and one night found my sweet spot with his fingers and OMG, it was awesome. He had a smile from ear to ear when it happened. It was a nice substantial volume, but I had nothing to compare it to, but soaked the sheets under my ass.
The 2nd time we tried it, it was just about impossible since I constantly was thinking about it, had barely a trickle. The 3rd time, I soaked the sheets again and he was so turned on, he fucked me directly after and liked the warm wet feeling on his cock and came within a few strokes.
While he's fingering me, pumping inside, he starts to look at my face knowing he's giving pleasure to me, and makes comments saying how he enjoys felling my insides swell and get soo tight, he seems to enjoy knowing the affects he's having on me.
I've been greedy ever since, constantly wanting him to make me do it, but it seems to take me forever to get one out, almost an hour worth of work. He started to get annoyed with all the work, but then used a dildo on me one night instead of fingers. Only took about 20 minutes, and once I got the first squirt out, I had several smaller ones, like a trickle that went down my ass, and finished with one huge porn star type power squirt that went off the bed. That one surprised him to the point of awkwardness.
It's been only about 2 months of squirt play, but with exploring different positions, he can make me squirt with his dick fucking me. With a weeks time, we found I can squirt in 2 positions.
HERE'S WHY I ASK MY QUESTIONS.... the other morning, we were in bed, I was on top facing him, fucking him (doing the work as a thank you for the night before), and not even thinking about the possibility, I ended up gushing all down onto him, flowed onto his dick / groin / somach, and down his sides onto the bed. The reason why I wasn't even thinking about squirting was I thought his dick was too deep inside me to be massaging the spot that gets me going. wow, I was wrong.
I totally soaked him. He says he enjoys me doing it, he knows that he's "doing his job right" when it happens, but I think he's abit turned off that I came all over him, and it was one of the heavier times, not just a trickle. He got up, towelled off, then went back to fucking me, but in a postion where if I did squirt again, which I did several times, it was only on his cock and he was off to the side abit so it wasn't all over him. I asked him if he wanted me to warn him when I feel like I'm going to explode again, quietly, he shook his head no, then said, he can tell by watching me. He said my eyes get really wide and stare at him, then I go from huffing and panting to tense and quiet (while it's happening, I have to be quiet because we have kids in the house)
After we were finished, I told him I was sorry I soaked him, I really wasn't expecting to do it (after all, this is new to me, and now after doing it several times, loving it, I am finding it harder to control, hold in). His response was kinda simple, something like, I let him cum on me, there's just alot more than what he leaves.
So, is it a good thing, something he wanted to explore, but not sure if he enjoys it yet, or that he's inhibited and not sure if he SHOULD enjoy me doing it, and having to constantly change the sheets is really annoying at 2am. and stopping to put a towel under my ass is kinda adding pressure to me to HAVE to squirt that night, and then nothing happens. When we are unprepared, it happens more frequently, and heavier volume.
Do you like it, enjoy it, what do you enjoy about it? the feeling of warm wetness, the satisfation of giving her ultimate joy? or hate the mess it leaves, the possible interruption of sex? anything I forgot?
Posted Mon Sep 03, 2012 08:27 PM
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Posted Mon Sep 03, 2012 10:39 PM
But more importantly, I'm only hearing that both YOU and you HUSBAND Love it! That's what really matters!
Posted Mon Sep 03, 2012 11:05 PM
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Posted Tue Sep 04, 2012 02:26 AM
Especially when I was in love with the person, i just felt excited that I got her that excited.
I've never experience it during a one night stand or anything.
But it would still be pretty cool. It's just cunt juice. All sex juice is yummy. If your partner doesn't think so, find anew partner!
Anyone who loves you will adore you sex juices.
Posted Tue Sep 04, 2012 04:32 AM
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Posted Tue Sep 04, 2012 07:11 AM
Where did you find the info as how to do it? Could you share that with me please. I think that it must be an orgasm and a half - so I would like to do the same for my wife.
Regards and just enjoy!!
Posted Tue Sep 04, 2012 07:32 AM
The thought however of a woman squirting and knowing that I've helped make that happen is a real turn on. I would be great to try it and seem what it feels like.
When my gf and I have hot sweaty sex I really love it so I can only imagine it to that really and would love it to happen one day!
Posted Tue Sep 04, 2012 08:24 PM
like I said, I'm almost 40, with same guy since high school senior prom, so a long long time. Not much experience for us both outside of each other. We weren't the only for each other, but maybe only 1 or 2 other experiences for each of us.
other than video porn, dating myself, now that internet and free sites have come along, things are more interesting. At first squirting seemed really weird and odd, never saw it before. But the more we learned, the more interesting it seemed. Then he surprised me one night with a ton of foreplay then saying "are you gonna squirt for me". At that moment I knew he was intrested.
I googled searched the term "how to squirt" and several learning sites came up, some were made for men, written for men. Others were on a free porn site with a guy demonstrating with a girl and explaining how to, but it was all using fingers. Using his cock was tricky at first, but once started, it was so easy for me.
I must say, practice makes perfect. And it did take me a long time for the first one (ever), then wanting it, I kept thinking about it happening and couldn't do it again. The whole trick I've found is to just erase my mind from everything (us woman think about 15 things at all times) which is hard to do. Then just lay back and enjoy the feeling. And yes, it does feel like people describe, the having to urinate feeling since everything feels full down there, but if the lady used the restroom just before, that is not something she needs to worry about. And, yes, when it feels like it's time for her to explode, it will feel like she's all swollen inside and trying to push you out.
As to why I never knew i could do it, or why it hasn't happend before... we always thought hard and deep, but it's totally opposite. With only going about 2 or 3 inches inside hits the spot. I like to say, like pumping it up, when it's full, slight pressure on the top side and stroke it down, like people say the "come hither" finger motion.
Good luck to you, do some searches, and (I'm sure i'll get criticized for this), don't tell her you're trying it so she doesn't have expectations. She doesn't let her mind wander to start thinking, what is he doing, am i actually going to do it for him, how messy is it, and she'll just enjoy the moment. If it happens, cudos to you, and she'll be so surprised, but love the full body orgasm and beg for more, at least I ask for more
Live in the moment for the first time, don't stop and put a towel down, just go for it, but have a sheet on standby for afterwards.
Posted Wed Sep 05, 2012 07:09 AM
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This post has been edited by MG 99: Wed Sep 05, 2012 10:00 AM
Posted Wed Sep 05, 2012 10:17 AM
It is wonderful, my wife never used to be a squirter until we found out how, and there is no stopping her now.
We also bought some protection for the bed, as it does tend to get everywhere!
As her husband, I love it and encourage it. I encourage it not just for the pleasure it gives me, but because of the great pleasure it gives my wife.
At first she was concerned about the clean up and the bed, but we are passed that now, and love it so much. She loves to do it, and I love it when she does it.
I can see how ladies might feel awkward about it at first or 'dirty' even but if one can get over that, it's there to be enjoyed.
I can also see how some men might feel odd about it, after all ejaculation is no longer exclusively male!
And some women squirt much more than a man ejaculates.
I wonder if, at some level, some guys feel undermined if there woman ejaculates more than they do.
Personally, I think it's a gift, and if it makes you feel good... do it!
No woman should ever deny herself this, if you are a squirter, then it's you right to do it if you want to, regardless.
Enjoy it, there are many women who would love to squirt, but have never quite managed it. You are lucky to be able to do it.
Embrace this part of you, don't hold back, if your sexual partner is not in to it... tough!
Posted Wed Sep 05, 2012 10:31 AM
So I think I'd like it but I haven't gotten to try it yet.
Posted Fri Sep 07, 2012 09:32 AM