I Give Up
Posted Mon Sep 10, 2012 01:14 AM
Posted Mon Sep 10, 2012 07:38 AM
Posted Mon Sep 10, 2012 09:29 AM
You DO want to be with him (otherwise you'd leave), and you're just angry and want to get even. Do what you want, but I don't see how cheating will solve what it is that makes you unhappy unless you're just horny/vengeful but don't want to give up his earning potential and the standard of living he affords you. I mean, otherwise, why stay? Good luck.
Posted Mon Sep 10, 2012 01:20 PM
I perhaps don't have the right to be opinionated about this, since I don't have children and will never have them. But if I had kids, I'd do all I could to give them a peaceful home. I'd live my life and look for happiness, just as I do now, but my happiness would have to mean they were happy too.
Kids know more than adults realize. It's a terrible thing to be in the middle of a war.
Posted Tue Sep 11, 2012 12:15 AM
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Posted Sat Sep 15, 2012 07:07 AM
Posted Sat Sep 15, 2012 07:10 AM
I kind of disagree with this type of vengeance. The reason being is that getting taken to the cleaners can me you strip the man of what he needs to survive...survive to make the payments awarded by the courts. Its more of a touchy situation than a lot of folks think.
Punished...yes. Left unable to pay...no.
Posted Sat Sep 15, 2012 07:12 AM
Posted Sat Sep 22, 2012 07:41 AM
I agree completely. Great response.
Posted Sun Sep 23, 2012 11:52 AM
I think this is awesome, good for you. The only advice I will give is try not to have too much revenge sex. Have some, because I am not going to lie it's fun, but you don't want to do something out of anger you will regret later. Hope things get better for you though.