Is there a thing one can do to completely shut down your libido? Supposing you were about to have sex
Posted Thu Sep 13, 2012 06:21 AM
For instance: I'm naked, ready for the guy, and he refers to his penis by a fruit name, say, a banana. I'd get up from bed, dress up as quickly as I possibly could, and leave. And I'd probably not be "in the mood" for the next 100 years.
There is, of course, lack of hygiene, but this one is easy to know before getting too close to a person. It just sticks out. It can't be faked.
Posted Thu Sep 13, 2012 07:57 AM
Posted Thu Sep 13, 2012 08:37 AM
Posted Thu Sep 13, 2012 09:38 AM
good one. Mentions of ex-partners should not occur in bed- ever.
Posted Thu Sep 13, 2012 11:41 AM
No matter how unsure you are, never, ever say, "is it in?" lol
Either look, feel with your hand or just pretend it is, but NEVER ask!!!
Posted Thu Sep 13, 2012 11:42 AM
Mel Gibson called his, "Mr. Wiggly."
So that's a no no?
Posted Thu Sep 13, 2012 11:49 AM
I can understand "sugar tits," but honey?
Honey is a term of endearment.
Cher use to call Sonny, "babe" "I've got you babe".............
I guess it depends on the lady and what she likes. Unfortunately, these things aren't intuitive and we don't come with owner's manuals.
I have a new friend on SF that, when the time is right, likes to be called a slut! She's awesome!
Posted Thu Sep 13, 2012 12:17 PM
I wanna make a confession, here... ... I'd love to be called Babe in bed. It sounds sooooooo American! And after being on SF for so long, I'm kind of fantasizing about an American-style fuck. Soooooooooooo exotic!!!! Hot!!
Posted Thu Sep 13, 2012 10:44 PM
The other thing that kills my mood is the use of anatomically correct or teenie bopper descriptions of body parts. "Oh baby, I love it when you squeeze my breasts" or "Your penis feels so good inside me" or "My vagina is aching for you". Part of me screams medical school and I can't go on. Or the classic bopper terms like "kitty" or "vajayjay". That screams immaturity.
I don't get why some women (including my wife) can't comfortably use the terms cock, pussy, tits, fuck, etc. We aren't in high school or med school here. We are grown adults with primal instincts.
Posted Thu Sep 13, 2012 10:52 PM
I agree with you to a point, there are some of those words such as boobies, bum and va-jay-jay (greys anatomy has a lot to answer for with that one) where all I want to do is look for the exit, as you can't believe the juvenile names are coming out of a grown mans mouth. The same can be said for some of the words I have heard men call their penises, meat/love stick, badboy and sausage to name just a few. I however don't mind my breasts being called tits or to some extent boobs, or my bottom as ass or butt and my vagina as vag or pussy. I also don't mind the penis being called cock or dick or even hard on. As for names such as hun (which I do use a lot, with people I care about) and baby in the right context am fine with. I don't like the words baby cakes, sweetie etc again sound juvenile.
Posted Thu Sep 13, 2012 11:31 PM