Married Swingers Questions for swingers
Posted Sat Sep 15, 2012 10:58 PM
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Posted Mon Sep 17, 2012 01:59 PM
The other thing to keep in mind is that, for most people, swinging is just sex. We make sure that we emphasize this with every potential partner we communicate with. Our relationship is rock solid. We aren't seeking something that is missing from our relationship. We aren't trying to revive something that is lost or dying. We just enjoy fucking other people from time to time. We often talk about how we could stop doing it today and our relationship wouldn't change at all. We've come across other couples who are swinging for all the wrong reasons. One cheated, now the other one wants to play. They are too lazy to break up, so this is how they deal with the fact that their relationship sucks. They aren't satisfied with just each other. My advice is to avoid these kinds of couples. If one partner becomes over-interested in you or your partner, insecurities and distrust can seep into your relationship as well.
So, in essence, my advice to you is to start out with a frank and honest conversation about it. Then talk about it again. And again. And again. Then start out small. Remember that you can always move forward, but never back. Make sure that this will work for both of you before diving in.
Posted Mon Sep 17, 2012 03:25 PM
Posted Mon Sep 17, 2012 04:03 PM
From my experience I would have to say that it has to be an equal playing field. It's not doing it to please the other. It was having and sharing as much fun( me) as they could.
This post has been edited by topper: Mon Sep 17, 2012 04:03 PM