Oral instead of premature
Posted Wed Oct 03, 2012 02:31 AM
I maybe could get into this once in a while but not every time we have sex because he cant last, its driving me nuts.
Has anybody had this problem before? Any tips?
Posted Wed Oct 03, 2012 03:53 AM
Posted Wed Oct 03, 2012 04:06 AM
You can try a vaginal safe, desensitizing numbing product on his penis. Or maybe a condom. Talk to your local pharmacist. It might buy you a few more minutes. Some guys have good results with Viagra or similar product which seems to work the opposite of what you might think...it CAN sometimes give a man better control and allow him pick and choose a time to ejaculate. There may be a natural product that does the same. Some can slow him down...even though it's not what they promise.
You might be lucky...he might outgrow this problem as time goes on. And there is always the second, or third time around....after a brief rest period. KAZ
Posted Wed Oct 03, 2012 04:36 AM
Posted Wed Oct 03, 2012 09:33 PM
Posted Wed Oct 03, 2012 10:02 PM
Have you introduced toys, so you can stay filled whilst he's giving you oral? That may help you both, too.
Posted Wed Oct 03, 2012 10:21 PM
You can also try adding larger toys (girth) so that your not quite so tight around him. With that, your still getting a nice full feeling and it may give him a fighting chance. I know for me, when my wife is "on" and we dont get to play much for those few days, the first time we get to play again I am quick on the draw. So, I try and stay in as long as I can, then switch my cock for "the hammer". that way she gets the satisfaction while I calm down and by the time I am good to start again, she is super wet, not nearly as tight and I can last quite a bit longer.
Posted Sun Oct 21, 2012 08:40 AM
I have some advise you two could use to improve your situation.
What he should do: - Masturbate without porn using only his mind
- When masturbating avoid to concentrate only on the penis (rub his balls, legs ....etc)
- try to feel the muscles between the anus and penis contracting when approching climax
- try to reduce the excitation by a strong and brief contraction of these muscles (he may have to stop moving at first or it could make him feel everything stronger and come quicker)
- retain himself from peeing (like when it's really fucking hard) and then release everything before sex (i was a concert where the toilets were overtaken, after the concert i peed for 2 minutes straight. 1H later i fucked for 1h30 straight).
what you should do: -go slowly: when a girl gives me a BJ before pernetration and long preliminaries, I get a beter stamina (just need to warm up and get used for few minutes)
- don't do doggystyle for now (it's a really stronger feeling than other positions)
- make him forget his dick (use your hands anywhere).
- make him a bit drunk ^^
hope it will help you. It really works for me
But as you can see he has more work to do than you so you should talk with him if you want him to do any of this.