Posted Sat Feb 23, 2008 03:23 AM
Alright, so I have been chatting with a friend online and he’s 28 and in love and engaged with an amazing woman. He has recently asked me to make a post for him because he has become a bit confused over the last 3 years. He says he is confused because of a few things…. He becomes sexually aroused by a penis….. he enjoys anal stimulation with dildo/fingers….. he likes the taste of his own cum. So, he’s confused because he is starting to wonder if he could be bi –but at the same time he can’t see ever dating a guy, yet at the same time will think if a guy is cute and then wonder how big he might be-
If there is any response I can get to pass along to him that would be appreciated because all I can tell him is that it is an option that he could be bi… or he is just a freak lol --because he does like the female body—
Also if he is bi, he is trying to figure out a way to tell his fiancé this…? From what he has told me she has fingered him in the ass before, and has tried to get him to suck on a dildo and has tried to insert it into him.
Posted Sun Feb 24, 2008 12:41 AM
It sounds like your friend is very normal. The anus is loaded with nerve endings which makes it very sensitive to stimulation. If a person is not homophobic, fingers, dildos etc can be very pleasurable. And a lot of guys including myself enjoy the taste of their cum. With the right partner snowballing, creampies and strapon type action can be fantastic. You say his girlfriend has fingered him and encouraged him to suck her dildo. He is a very lucky guy to have so an open minded friend to him explore his deepest passions.
Posted Fri Mar 07, 2008 08:16 PM
Posted Mon Mar 10, 2008 01:14 AM
Because he is turned on by the site of a penis, and as you said, "thinks that guy is cute, I wonder how big he is", chances are he is bi.
Should he tell her? If it was me, I would, but he need to be prepared for the different possible outcomes:
1. She accepts him, they live a happy very sexually fulfilled life together
2. She rejects him, and possibly lets out his new found sexuality to everyone.
He should try and feel her out. Is she bi? Has he tried to get her to explore his anal region with fingers, strap-ons etc?
Hope it works out, keep us posted!
Posted Mon Mar 10, 2008 03:17 AM
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