Missed Opportunites What have you missed or passed on?
Posted Fri Oct 12, 2012 02:25 PM
Posted Fri Oct 12, 2012 03:31 PM
Posted Fri Oct 12, 2012 05:11 PM
A woman I'd seen often, we'd talk and flirt a bit, but it didn't go further. When I'd see her, she'd try the flirt, but I feel that flirting only goes so far: if it's not going anywhere, I'll play, but I don't expect anything.
After 4 months, when I was set to leave, she came up to me and let me know what she wanted. Sex was very enjoyable- very very enjoyable. We showered, kissed, and she said goodbye. Two hours later, I was on the plane...
Sex is fun, but it should be fun for both. I don't need to convince or beg a woman to be with me. Perhaps that means a lot of missed opportunities, but I'm okay with it.
Posted Sat Oct 13, 2012 11:46 AM
Posted Sat Oct 13, 2012 01:47 PM
I didn't make that move, because she was my cousin, and I was being a gentleman, since I was a few years her senior. But I know now that she would have gone with me wherever I would have led her; indeed, had my eyes been more open to her, I would have realized then that she WANTED me to have her. We were very close, and we loved each other very much.
Posted Sat Oct 13, 2012 04:33 PM
Your wife is a lucky woman.
To the OP: I've definitely passed on a lot of opportunities and I don't regret it at all. They were all either decisions I knew I'd regret because things would be awkward after or I was in a relationship. I'd never cheat, and I'd never regret the choice to not screw over my s/o.
Posted Sat Oct 13, 2012 06:21 PM
Posted Sat Oct 13, 2012 06:34 PM
Posted Sat Oct 13, 2012 06:36 PM
More recently, there was a very cute girl who lived next door to me at university. We got on really well too. One night, we spent a good few hours late at night sitting on my bed, just talking about life and love. She looked so good in her nightie, and I'm fairly sure she was expecting something to happen, but I passed. My relationship might have issues, but I won't cheat on my girlfriend outright like that.
This post has been edited by Miss_C.: Mon Oct 15, 2012 02:57 PM
Reason for edit:: Removed age (under 18).
Posted Mon Oct 15, 2012 11:38 AM
Posted Mon Oct 15, 2012 02:55 PM
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Posted Tue Oct 16, 2012 07:25 PM
I do recall one time when it was obvious enough that even I picked up on it, but she was the sister of a friend, so I was too cautious, which I later learned wouldn't have been an issue. Totally a missed opportunity but I don't tend to dwell on those sorts of things.