straight friend jerked me off in my sleep the other night. what do i do?
Posted Wed Oct 31, 2012 12:33 PM
Posted Wed Oct 31, 2012 04:11 PM
Posted Fri Nov 02, 2012 10:03 AM
That made me laugh. But in all seriousness... just enjoy it. There's no need to do anything about it, if you're both enjoying yourselves then I say just let things happen.
Posted Fri Nov 02, 2012 12:39 PM
Talking with him about the encounter(s) will either lead to that deeper relationship in which you become lovers, or, perhaps more likely, will cause him embarrassment and kick his inhibitions into high gear.
I think it's clear what he wants. What do YOU want? If you found his jerking you off enjoyable, how do you think you'd react to him sucking your dick? How far are you willing to go? Does the thought of your friend's cock in your mouth strike you as repugnant, or exciting? You need to think about these things before you accept his advances further.
If you DON'T want your friendship to turn into a gay sexual relationship, I would suggest the talking option. Tell him you enjoy his companionship, and, while the fleeting sexual encounter was very pleasant, you want to only remain friends, and that you don't want to hurt him, but you would rather not have any further sexual contact.
If you DO want to take your friendship with him further, if you find him handsome and sexually arousing to you, and you want to explore a sexual relationship with him, don't talk. Next time you find yourselves sleeping together, let your actions speak to your desires. Let him make the first move again, since he's clearly comfortable doing that, but don't be a passive partner in bed. Reach out in the darkness, find his cock, and stroke him gently and lovingly. Fondle his balls. Tell how good it feels to have your hands on his dick, and how much you want to make him cum. While he's stroking you, keep your hands busy rubbing his back, his chest, his thighs, groping his ass, and run your fingers through his hair. Tell him he can suck your cock if he wants to, and that you would love it if he did.
Mutual sexual arousal and excitement is the great annihilator of inhibition. If you feel comfortable, and he seems receptive, take his cock in your mouth. Tell him how thrilling it is for you to suck his dick, and that you've been thinking about it ever since he jerked you off. Turn your night of sleeping together into a complete sexual encounter, with both of you enjoying orgasms (perhaps more than one each) at the hands, or in the mouths, of the other.
After THAT night, NOW you can talk. You both enjoyed sex with the other, and you can talk about your budding relationship as lovers, and how excited you are to explore this together. You will have an incredible amount of fun discovering the joy, excitement, and fulfillment of gay sex together, finding out and experiencing together each others' turn-ons, fantasies, and desires.
Good luck, and please let us know how it goes!
Posted Fri Nov 02, 2012 12:42 PM
yeah, I think his "straight" label went out the window when started jackin' ya off.
Congrats on the free handjob tho!
Posted Fri Nov 02, 2012 01:47 PM
Posted Wed Nov 28, 2012 12:06 AM
Sounds like he is into it, and if you are, you may have to be the initiator and just go for it. (without loosing a friend of course)