Advice/Help Did I screw up fulfilling her fantasy?
Posted Wed Oct 31, 2012 08:39 PM
Well, she loved watching. But here's my problem......the sex between her and I became less and less. Now it's to the point where all she does is push me to find a guy willing to perform in front of her. I don't think she wants sex with me anymore. She claims she loves me........but it's been over 8 months. It seems like she doesn't even want to touch me anymore. Should I cut my losses or what? I gave her what she wanted and now I'm NOT getting screwed.
Posted Wed Oct 31, 2012 09:18 PM
Posted Wed Oct 31, 2012 10:31 PM
Besides, you should stop your gf from watching these videos and draw her back to the real life.
Posted Wed Oct 31, 2012 10:48 PM
you shouldn't just be there to fulfill your gf's fantasies. good on you for doing that for her, but i think for this to be a good relationship it needs to be more balanced.
just to clear up that rape is a lack of consent, rather than a lack of fun. i've had some pretty unfun sex but that doesn't make it rape.
This post has been edited by saintnailpolish: Wed Oct 31, 2012 10:49 PM
Posted Fri Nov 09, 2012 03:33 AM
all you can do now it try to get her to open up about whats causing her to behave this way otherwise there is just no moving forward.
Posted Fri Nov 09, 2012 08:03 AM
Our situation is different from yours. If your GF is just using you to watch you suck off another guy, then make tracks and get out, unless you are into it too. The idea of fulfilling her fantasy was to get her hot for you, which it didn't seem to do.
If you are into guys, you really don't need her about if there is no payoff.
Posted Sat Jan 12, 2013 12:02 AM
Posted Sat Jan 12, 2013 07:53 AM
You may want to explain to her that you have no problems engaging her fantasies but don't necessarily want to make them the norm either. A healthy balance is usually better than totally one way.