hotel sex vs. home bedroom sex
Posted Fri Nov 16, 2012 11:02 PM
I thought hotel sex is supposed to be super hot and kinky, uninhibited. Kinda the same to me this time, almost, dare i say it, boring.
for the last 2 years our sex life has taken off like a rocket, and he's even getting me to squirt almost every time we fuck (since we learned I can do it about 6 months ago), but not once while in the hotel.
Could it be that we've been doing it almost every other night, sometimes every night for about 5 nights in a row to where we're both kinda "worn out"? Or is it the comforts of home that i'm missing. He's not complaining, but I think he needs a break for a few days too. After fucking in the hotel this morning, it was check out time, and nobody likes to go home, but he was just tired and grumpy all day. I asked if it's something I did, and he said he's just tired. He just had a 2 day stay at the beach and no work for another 2 days, and he's tired?
Almost went to a burlesque club. we went last time and it was rock and roll themed instead of classic. We were hoping for classic this time. We got to the outside of the club and I said 'are we going in?' He said, looks kinda dead tonight, nah. REally?
Something's going on and I don't know what.
Posted Sat Nov 17, 2012 12:40 AM
If the sex at home has been good lately, it's totally possible that he really is tired and needs a break.
And don't forget that while women's sex drives seem to increase at your age, Men's drives are in decline around 40.
Overall, sounds like you had a pretty good weekend to me!
Posted Sat Nov 17, 2012 08:08 PM
Posted Sat Nov 17, 2012 10:12 PM
i find hotel sex mind blowing...well it was last time i went there a while back. the different places, new furniture...but it was relatively new in the relationship at the time.
Posted Sun Nov 18, 2012 04:22 PM
Posted Mon Nov 19, 2012 09:10 AM
At home there are more things to consider ,neighbours and family etc .and we feel we can't relax.
Posted Wed Nov 21, 2012 01:42 AM
Posted Wed Nov 21, 2012 12:03 PM
Posted Thu Nov 22, 2012 09:04 PM
After we got home, i talked to my husband a few days later. Didn't want to pester him about it. Turns out after he worked all day, drove 2 hours to the beach, checked in hotel around 8pm, and walked around the casinos to see what was going on... skipping dinner in the meantime.
Last time we were there, it was the end of summer and it was a party everywhere. Music playing, girls table dancing, clubs busy. This time it was off season and everything was quiet and dead. Alot of the over 50, even over 60 scene. Even the club with "almost angels" only had about 15 people in it watching them perform. The whole thing in general was disappointing. Or maybe we had too much fun the last time and expected more. The guy who pushed us in the Rickshaw even said we were his 3rd ride since 7pm and it was 11pm.
I wasn't planning on going away so i wasn't into it. I took 2 vacation days from work to get our house back in order again, and jokingly said I was going to run away since i had a free hotel room offer. Husband took me serious and took the day off from work. I was planning my days different, and even going away i would be happy in a hotel room with a good book.
Maybe next time.