Whats the best way to see if another woman would like to 3some with me and my fiance? Help needed.
Posted Sat Nov 24, 2012 11:51 PM
Please help, thanks!
Posted Mon Nov 26, 2012 08:22 AM
Also, having your wife/gf do most of the leg work may help put a prospective female playmate at ease as opposed to the typical male bravado approach.
also, keep in mind that there is a reason why they call single women seeking threesomes unicorns. best of luck.
Posted Mon Nov 26, 2012 04:03 PM
At a gay bar I used to frequent, a lot of couples would come in looking for a third. Being a bisexual female, naturally I was on the receiving end of a lot of advances. While it never made me uncomfortable, it was certainly annoying. So I would avoid doing anything like that. Stick to looking in areas where group sex is the theme.
Posted Tue Nov 27, 2012 06:38 AM
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Posted Thu Nov 29, 2012 08:04 PM
Posted Sun Dec 09, 2012 12:50 AM
Please help, thanks!
Find someone you both like, talk with them, and if things click then just be upfront with them. Let them know that you and your fiance want a threesome and see if they're interested. Sure it might be a little nerve wracking but being upfront and direct is the quickest and easiest way to get the ball rolling. Trying to "not be too obvious" and "see if they're interested in us" just complicates things as neither you or them knows each others intentions. Maybe they're into it, maybe they're just being friendly. No one's going to make the first move, so take initiative, put it out there and see what happens.
What's the worse that will happen? They'll either say yes, or no. They might even freak out and tell you to find Jesus or whatever, but it's really not the end of the world. Move on and find someone else who is interested.
Posted Tue Dec 11, 2012 04:31 PM
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Posted Thu Jan 03, 2013 12:21 AM
Don is straight, but I am Bi-Curious.
We're going to try all these tips soon as we can!
Posted Mon Jun 17, 2013 01:45 PM
This post has been edited by shecumsfirst: Mon Jun 17, 2013 01:45 PM