Posted Wed Dec 26, 2012 08:44 PM
Me and my girlfriend have been arguing on and off, a lot, for weeks now, she seems to have lost interest in me and I don't know what to do.
I think we're almost at breaking point to be honest and as much I don't want it, it looks like it's what was to happen :(alt="">
It's hurting me so much because he's been together almost a year, she's the first woman I've loved, she seems to have lost any sort of feelings for me.
Posted Wed Dec 26, 2012 09:17 PM
Really upset but seen it coming for a few months now, so I do feel a bit motivated to try and get back on track with things, I don't have any choice otherwise as I'm 42. The only thing I'm certain about is that I still want to be with a woman.
Posted Wed Dec 26, 2012 09:19 PM
has there been any extra stress in the relationship, life recently to implicate this arguing....you need to talk this through. and yes if the relationship run its course, then it will take time to get over it.
edit....sorry posted at the same time as you.
im sorry to hear that its tough. give her a little time, maybe she will realise she made a mistake and want to get back together ?
This post has been edited by ButtercupLocket: Wed Dec 26, 2012 09:22 PM
Posted Thu Dec 27, 2012 12:25 AM
Posted Thu Dec 27, 2012 05:56 AM
"I don't have any choice otherwise as I'm 42."
Sorry if I'm reading this wrong but ... You have all the choices in the world and they are yours for taking; will you take them is up to you. Being 42 if fucking awesome. Take that from someone who is 54 and still don't see that as a problem. If someone like me has no problems in finding partners in their early/mid 30s than you should have none what so ever. Don't think of your age as a burden or as an impediment - it is NOT. As a man you are in your prime and have a lot to offer to women. There are many out there who would be happy to have you, all you have to do is to let them.
Posted Thu Dec 27, 2012 06:23 AM
Posted Thu Dec 27, 2012 07:39 AM
Sorry to hear. I know break ups are always tough, but you are beautiful woman and will bounce back. 42 is young!! Just need to get back out there and mingle. Good luck Hun.
Posted Thu Dec 27, 2012 08:02 AM