This is very embaressing but I need help with it. It seems to happen everytime I get a new girl. It happened with the first girl and it happened with this one. I can get it hard when we are foolin around but right when we decide to have sex i go limp. I think maybe i think about it too much and get scared but im not sure. But after the first time of having sex the problem goes away. Is it just a mind game?
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Posted Mon Mar 14, 2005 02:04 PM
To me it sounds like a mind game. You could be subconciously afraid that you'll not be "up to par" in bed. But that's just my opinion.
Posted Mon Mar 14, 2005 02:55 PM
Yeah bro , it sounds like your mind is messing you up a wee lil bit . Your so wound up , that by the time your ready to "Git er dun" you just loose it . The only way to avoid this is "Relax" , maybe have a glass of wine befor playtime , hope ya get over it soon bro & welcome to SF .... Best reguards "Q".