some advice please guys or girls! ideas for me and my girl
Posted Fri Feb 01, 2013 06:09 PM
So my problem isn't that thats getting boring cause its not, its never the same and we don't use it all the time so its a nice change when we do, but it has got me a little curious about trying other things, I've thought about trying to get her to watch porn for arousal and ideas (have mentioned it, nothing yet, but i know she likes porn or did when she was single!) im a bit curious to try some ass play and anal, we've both done anal before but not together. so really what i wanna know is what peoples thoughts are, how'd you bring it up with your partner what sorts of things to start with.
GIRLS - how would you wanna be approached about these things, wheres a good next point to get a little more adventurous.
GUYS - how'd you bring these things up, where did you start, good and bad reactions from girls.
Please help, i appreciate you having a read and a think for me.
Posted Sat Feb 02, 2013 01:20 AM
Many porn sites have a free member sign up list, this is one way to add favorites to your account info. Then one day just leave it open (not fully open). If done right she might start to look and see it, and the best part is the vids are the subjects she likes.
yes this has worked for many people I know.... I dont take blame if this back fires
Posted Sat Feb 02, 2013 01:29 AM
Posted Sun Feb 03, 2013 10:51 PM
Posted Mon Feb 04, 2013 07:34 AM
I wasn't looking for an elaborate plot I just thought I'd see what others thought and really it was helpful even though I did bring it up very naturally without looking for a plot to bring it up. I also think the point that I've also told her about the site and that I've joined will give us another avenue to come up with new ideas and experiences! Who knows maybe il get her on here too!
So cheers, thanks for the input!
Posted Mon Feb 04, 2013 11:58 AM
Btw, I'm finding Tumblr is a great research tool as well. We like the Sensual Pegging blog posted there.
This post has been edited by williamg: Mon Feb 04, 2013 12:04 PM
Posted Mon Feb 04, 2013 12:23 PM
I didn't pester him by asking for sex, or anything. I just let him be. He didn't want me and I accepted that. He moved in and I've never intentionally provoked him. Eventually, he wanted sex, then we started doing other stuff, he had easy group experiences, just watching, eventually he participated... like this. Things happened slowly. I kept doing what I used to do before and little by little, he adhered to my lifestyle. At least, to part of it.
With anal, I didn't think he'd ever wanna try that. He had seen me doing it with other people I fuck when we had foursomes and threesomes. He'd get super excited, but didn't wanna do it himself. He also got very excited watching bi-male fuck buddies of mine fucking each other. But, in his mind, it wasn't supposed to be. It was perhaps a cultural thing. I never put any pressure on him to fuck my ass and I really, really didn't think he'd ever wanna do it. It was OK by me, though, I secretly craved that kind of stuff with him. But I never asked him for it.
One day, curiosity got too strong to ignore and he tried it. And he's hooked.
The best is to tell people you fuck what you would like to try, what you're open to, and, if they feel like it, and when they feel like it, it'll happen.
Posted Mon Feb 04, 2013 03:04 PM