AS MY USER NAME SAYS...
Posted Wed Mar 27, 2013 11:56 AM
As I am getting older, my sexual needs are expanding. I have been married only 3 years and am trying to get things going in the bedroom. Hubby is VERY conservative and is not into trying anything new on him (anal disgusts him) but as far as satisfying me, he is open. I have limited toys and mostly purchased them when I was single (small 4 inch vibe, some lubes and a set of ben wah balls). I used the vibe on an ex and he loved it and I also loved doing it to him (I am more on the dom side). Since hubby wants nothing to do with it, it is a downer. Hubby is also a minute-man which is VERY frustrating and we have tried everything, from medication to using condoms to de-senitizers and nothing works. This is where I have now cum forward (pun intended) and presented him with getting some toys into the mix of things.
Another thing that I am not embarassed to confess....I have NEVER had an orgasm through penetration alone (aka: G-spot Stimulation). Thats wether having the 'real thing' with a partner OR using a toy.
I am open to suggestions as far as toys for the newbie. I'm sure the SUPER Jackrabbit that has vibes that would peel the paint off the walls is out of my league at this point and time...lol!
One toy I saw on a VERY VERY well known adult online and catalog store was called the Wascally Wabbit. Has great reviews of almost 5 stars and is recommended for beginners and novice users. I posted a pic below.
Im looking forward to some sex toy recommendations and education
Posted Wed Mar 27, 2013 12:03 PM
Posted Wed Mar 27, 2013 12:05 PM
or u can use the real thing ove got a perfect one u can use
Posted Wed Mar 27, 2013 11:13 PM
Starters, the Ribbit vibes break and realy are no good. In the past couple years less and less of them coming out due to sales.
Top non threat toys
#1 Would be the wand, Hitachi is the number 1 pick. I prefer the LELO wand, Cost twice has much but is wireless and waterproof.
#2 Metal Works Ben Wa balls (this is a non sexual item, but can help you achieve the orgasm your looking for in time), other option is Fun Factory Duo balls
#3 Njoy Pure Wand, works wonders on other parts of the body too.
#4 Plane old bullet, I prefer BSwish Bnaughty Bullet due to its waterproof.
#5 Lelo Liv, yes its a vibrator. But it is non threating, I have sold these to 60+ old ladies.
As for your husband, has he seen his doctor about the cum issue? A good prostate massager can help him learn how to control it.
Posted Thu Mar 28, 2013 11:59 AM
In regards to hubby, yes he has seen a doctor. Tried meds and other possible solutions (as listed above in first post) and nothing has worked.
I am, however, surprised at your comment/statement about the rabbit vibes. I have read a couple threads on here about "favorite toys" and the rabbit has come up unanimously in many of them and most women swear by them. I already have a set on ben wa balls and use them during intercourse.
So, here I am seeking that toy that will help me achieve my "goal"...both alone and at some point including my husband.
Posted Thu Mar 28, 2013 12:51 PM
Posted Thu Mar 28, 2013 01:05 PM
Posted Thu Mar 28, 2013 02:18 PM
They sell these cheaper toys under the guise of "novelty items". This protects them from liability. They give off harmfull chemicals over time. Some will even put small disclaimer somewhere saying "external use only". Stick with 100% pure silicone, glass, or metal. The best way to change a company's bad habits is with our wallets.
Posted Thu Mar 28, 2013 10:18 PM