Please help! possible P.E.? Low T?
Posted Thu May 09, 2013 08:07 AM
Posted Thu May 09, 2013 08:30 AM
If you smoke, or are overweight, that also contributes to a decline.
any depression, or antidepression drugs can impact it too.
I am not a big fan of testosterone treatments, mostly because there is growing evidence that T will accelerate prostate cancer.
I would look up the standard herbs that are available, Korean red ginseng, horny goat weed, yohimbe (although some report side effects), and others. Sounds like u can still get laid, but the "situation" needs to be right. Sounds like something going on in ur head, as opposed to your pud!
Posted Thu May 09, 2013 09:09 AM
Posted Fri May 10, 2013 12:46 PM
why don't you try some relaxation techniques, or a good thing is to masturbate before seeing your girlfriend, that way the PE should be less of a problem as you'll have already cum previously and may last longer.
Its very much mind over matter sometimes. I orgasm very easily, ridiculously easy in fact and if I was a guy, i'd be in your shoes. Fortunately for a female, its less of a problem.
One other thing to try is more foreplay, going back to it once you feel yourself getting to the brink. You feel you are going to cum, stop what you are doing and go down on your girlfriend or just kiss for a while before getting back to where you were.
Posted Sun May 12, 2013 10:32 AM
Posted Sun May 12, 2013 10:54 AM
Posted Mon May 13, 2013 01:45 PM
Sorry to hear about your troubles. Let me tell you a little about myself. I have a master's degree in Oriental Medicine; 5 years of clinical training. In Oriental Medicine, sexual function is considered along with all other bodilhy functions in diagnosing a patient. There are definitely solutions to the problems you're having. However, without knowing more about other functions of your body, (sleep, appetite and digetsion, subjective feelings of heat and cold in your body, emotions and emotional history, etc) it is difficult to make an accurate clinical diagnosis pertaining to the difficulties you're having. There are several diagnoses possible from what you've mentioned in your post; Kidney Yang Deficiency, Heart and Kidney Yin Deficiency, Heat in the Liver Channer, Kidney and Liver Yin deficiency...) I would like to suggest you find a well-qualified practictioner of Oriental Medicine (acupuncturist and herbalist) to help you out with this. In the meantime, try an herb called "Horny Goat Weed", it's easy to find in almost any vitamin store. It's known to Tonify Kidney Yang. Kidney Yang is the energetic function of your body that controls sex drive and ejaculation. However, the herb is contraindicated for long-term use. (It's not toxic - it can "damage the Yin.") If you want, try googling "Deer Exercise". It is an exercise that you can do to address the problems you're having. AND, before you say, "I don't believe in that crap", it doesn't matter. It works. Good luck with it.
Posted Mon May 13, 2013 07:47 PM
Make sure to come back and update us in the near future
Posted Mon May 13, 2013 11:45 PM