I'm flat out unattractive, physically. Thing is, it has a lot to do with qualities I have no control over. The biggest problem I run into is, everyone seems to think I'm much younger than I am (often around the age of 12...) just by looking at me. I'm short (5'1"), and I have a naturally young looking face. I can't really do anything about either of those things...
Even the last girl I was totally in love with recently made a backhanded comment about me looking young. I don't know if that's the reason she didn't want to go out with me, but it sure hurt my feelings all the same. It's not like I chase after super hot "model" types; heck, this last girl isn't traditionally "attractive", in my opinion, but I was still crazy about her.
It's an incredibly frustrating place to be in. I don't know how much my looks really hold me back, or if it's all in my head, but I feel like it must play some part in my lack of success. So many random strangers feel the incessant need to go "Oh, I thought you were a child!", so I can understand girls probably don't want to date someone they perceive to be a little boy.
So what the heck am I supposed to do?
This post has been edited by xindiex: Mon May 13, 2013 03:21 PM